West Michigan Therapy Dogs, Inc. (WMTD), a nonprofit organization providing pet-assisted therapy throughout West Michigan, is launching its “Unleash the Love” fundraising campaign on Giving Tuesday, Dec. 2. WMTD hopes to raise $5,000 by Jan. 1, 2026.
The campaign aims to support the organization’s rapidly expanding programming and the growing need for trained therapy dog teams across the region.
Bringing comfort and joy
For nearly 25 years, WMTD has brought comfort, connection and healing to individuals facing emotional, physical and psychological challenges. With more than 200 volunteer teams serving over 100 programs and facilities across five counties, WMTD teams visit hospitals, schools, assisted living centers, libraries and community organizations, providing companionship, support and moments of joy for those who need it most.
As demand for pet therapy continues to rise, WMTD is seeking community support to strengthen operational capacity and ensure programs remain accessible and effective.
Therapy dogs bring comfort, connection and healing to individuals facing emotional, physical and psychological challenges (Courtesy, Cindy Bateson/WMTD)
“Each visit our teams make creates an impact that can’t be measured in dollars alone,” said Heather McCormick, Board President of West Michigan Therapy Dogs, Inc. “But the resources required to train, equip and support our growing program are real.
“This campaign helps ensure we can continue bringing love, hope and connection to individuals throughout West Michigan.”
How funds will be used
Funds raised through Unleash the Love will support critical needs, including:
Securing dedicated storage space for wheelchairs, walkers, crutches, AV equipment, and classroom materials used during training and certification.
Offsetting training facility fees to provide volunteers with a consistent, safe space to learn and practice.
Covering essential operational costs that keep WMTD running smoothly as the organization grows.
Purchasing training and certification supplies, including therapy dog vests, badges, evaluation materials, and program resources.
The campaign runs Dec. 2 – Jan. 1, and community members are invited to support WMTD by donating online or by mail.
“With continued support from our community, we can train more teams, reach more people and continue the work that has defined WMTD for nearly 25 years,” said McCormick. “Together, we can truly ‘unleash the love’ this season and beyond.”
How to Donate
Donations can be made online at www.wmtd.org/donate or by mail at West Michigan Therapy Dogs, Inc., P.O. Box 2533, Grand Rapids MI 49501-2533.
More information about WMTD can be found on their website and social media sites (Facebook, Instagram).
Throughout her career, Brittany Rickert has explored nursing jobs in various settings but keeps getting drawn back to hospice. For her, there is little else that offers such a unique and rewarding experience.
“There are landmarks throughout our lives, and death is one of them,” says Rickert, a nurse of 15 years. “It is very special to be allowed into that sacred space with patients and their loved ones, to support them through such a pivotal portion of their life.”
Rickert finds caring for the elderly to be extremely rewarding (Courtesy, Emmanuel Hospice)
As a registered nurse case manager with Emmanuel Hospice, Rickert is in a diverse role that requires her to use both clinical and emotional support skills to walk alongside patients on their end-of-life journey.
She defines her position as the “coordinator of the patient experience altogether,” working alongside an interdisciplinary team to bring supportive services directly to patients, wherever they call home.
“My goal is to make sure each patient’s quality of life is at its best and that patients are getting everything they could possibly want from hospice care to live fully and comfortably,” Rickert says, noting she will involve social workers, spiritual caregivers, music therapists and more, depending on a patient’s goals and needs.
“I want each patient to feel completely cared for and for the family to know they’re in good hands.”
Empowering patients
As Rickert guides patients through their options, she empowers them to make informed decisions about their care. Patients select which services are important to them. Alongside traditional medical care options, Rickert likes to highlight the complementary therapies and services available, including massage therapy, pet visitors, essential oils and more.
“People are often surprised to learn about our additional therapies as not every hospice offers them,” Rickert says. “Patient wishes are another example that can be very meaningful and connect with our goal of making hospice more about living. Just this past month, I have been working on a wish to get a family out to an MSU basketball game for a huge Spartan fan in our care.”
“We’ve got you.”
Another key point Rickert emphasizes with families: The care team is available 24/7 to answer questions and dispatch care as needed.
“Just because I’m not scheduled to come back until next week for a regular visit does not mean I, or another member of the care team, can’t check in sooner,” she says. “I reassure families our light is always on. We’ve got you.”
Direct patient care
Rickert check the vitals of Barbara, an Emmanuel Hospice patient (Courtesy, Emmanuel Hospice)
Rickert enjoys being “out in the field” regularly and providing direct patient care herself. Because hospice is a service, not a place, she is caring for patients wherever they are all throughout much of West Michigan.
That distinction is particularly relevant this time of year as Emmanuel Hospice celebrates National Care at Home Month and the role of hospice in the spectrum of in-home care.
During a typical patient visit, Rickert checks vitals and does a head-to-toe assessment, zeroing in on common symptoms that can occur as the end of life approaches. She manages medications and takes stock of supplies and other equipment to help patients remain comfortable in their home.
Providing emotional support is intertwined with the clinical side of Rickert’s role. As a main point of contact for patients and their loved ones, it is critical she helps them navigate unchartered waters with empathy and respect. Rickert aims to be a reassuring presence to everyone involved.
Holiday gatherings can become more of a reality check than joyful reunions as relatives notice health and safety concerns in aging loved ones for the first time.
“People often rely on phone calls or texts to check on older loved ones throughout the year,” says Paula Lett, Social Services Manager for Care Resources, a Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly. “But without those regular in-person visits, signs that indicate a need for assistance can go unnoticed for months.”
Holiday wake-up calls
Spending time with loved ones on a regular basis can help family identify opportunities for support sooner (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Throughout much of her career, Lett has been on the frontlines of the post-holiday influx of people seeking senior care. Her colleague, Eric Millar, can also attest to the surge in inquiries.
“It can be a shock to the system for family members who haven’t been around all year to notice their older loved one has been struggling,” Millar says, noting that these holiday wake-up calls underscore the importance of more regular check-ins.
“Don’t wait until the holidays to face these issues,” Millar advocates. “Get into the holiday spirit of visiting loved ones year-round by carving out a couple of hours each month to go into mom or dad’s home. You don’t have to cook or clean. Just spend time together. It will mean more to them than you realize and also help you identify opportunities for support sooner.”
Looking for clues
Whenever visiting an aging loved one, Lett and Millar encourage families to take note of the state of the home. Are there piles of mail or trash? An overflowing kitchen sink or laundry hamper?
Monitoring for changes in physical health, personal hygiene and mood is also important.
“You might notice they’ve lost weight, appear disheveled or are wearing dirty clothes,” Millar explains. “Maybe they’re increasingly forgetful, irritable or confused.”
After identifying such signs, Lett cautions against falling into the assumption that nursing home placement is the only solution, especially when “there is so much help available through programs such as PACE to keep seniors living safely in their own homes.”
Conversation tips
Focus conversation around resources that can give more independence rather than take it away (Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
However, broaching the subject with an aging loved one requires great care. Millar recommends having the person they trust most talk one-on-one, rather than a group intervention. Focus the conversation around resources that can give more independence rather than take it away.
“Seek to understand the specific areas where they could benefit from assistance so they can continue living the life they want to live,” he says. “You can be firm about the fact that you’re going to help, but encourage them to choose where they want the help.”
Lett adds it can help to explain that the goal is to maintain their ability to remain in their own home and in control as much as possible while enhancing their health and safety.
“No one wants to be a burden on anyone else, so it can be difficult to accept help,” Lett explains. “Be sure to treat them as a person, not an object that is a liability to themselves. Reassure them that getting support doesn’t mean they can’t still be self-reliant. There are options to help meet their needs while maintaining their dignity and autonomy.”
Learn more
Lett says families don’t have to “start from scratch” to find resources and build a care plan tailored to their loved one’s needs. For information about services that help older adults stay healthy and live independently in the community, call 800.610.6299 or visit CareResources.org.
This Veterans Day, AnchorPoint Christian students will set up a field of American flags in partnership with Disabled American Veterans to honor local veterans and raise critical funds to support our nation’s ill and injured heroes (Courtesy, DAV)
Flags will be displayed at AnchorPoint Christian School on Nov. 11
This Veterans Day, AnchorPoint Christian School students will set up a field of American flags in partnership with Disabled American Veterans (DAV) to honor local veterans and raise critical funds to support our nation’s ill and injured heroes.
Each donated flag represents a special veteran in someone’s life, with proceeds benefiting DAV and the charity’s free, professional services for veterans, their families, caregivers and survivors.
Local students show support for veterans (Courtesy, AnchorPoint Christian)
The flags will be displayed at AnchorPoint Christian School on Nov. 11.
“It’s been amazing to see our students get excited about something that honors others,” said Holly Gomez, a teacher at AnchorPoint Christian School.
“They’re realizing that even at their age, they can play a part in showing appreciation and supporting veterans in our community.”
Providing life-changing services
Headquartered in Erlanger, KY, DAV provides our nation’s veterans and their families with a range of programs, such as benefits assistance, transportation to and from VA medical appointments and more, at no cost. DAV volunteers donate nearly 2.5 million hours per year assisting veterans in their communities.
With over 1,200 chapters across the country, the charity has nearly one million members who give veterans a powerful voice at local, state and federal levels.
(Courtesy, DAV)
“Every flag in the field holds a unique story about a veteran who served and reminds their brothers- and sisters-in-arms that they are not forgotten,” said Barry Jesinoski, DAV CEO and national adjutant. “Each donation helps provide life-changing services for our nation’s veterans and their families. We are deeply touched by the community’s generosity and support.”
Marine Corps veteran and Birthday Ball organizer Eric Winters with skywritten smiley face above him at the Muskegon Air Show. (Photo Courtesy, Eric Winters)
While recovering from a car accident after his Marine Corps service, veteran Eric Winters wasn’t happy with the challenges he faced.
“During my recovery, I became so mad at the system that I had to start a nonprofit to help my military brothers and sisters,” explained Winters, who founded a nonprofit called VETS (Veteran Enrichment Taskforce Services) in 2024. “We are out here advocating for our military community, with a primary focus on mental health, housing and more.”
Winters was inspired to found VETS after the accident left him unable to continue working. He said he wanted to advocate for veterans who have been left behind. The nonprofit seeks to raise awareness of veterans’ issues through community events.
Their mission: “To identify, develop, deliver and evaluate veteran-based needs paralleled with a service solution for growth, prosperity and fun.”
Marine Corps Birthday Ball This year marks the 250th birthday of the United States Marine Corps and what better way to highlight the milestone with a celebration.
Marine Corps Birthday Ball to celebrate 250th anniversary. Tickets can be purchased through Nov. 3. (Image Courtesy, Eric Winters)
“I had a sudden epiphany,” said Winters, who served from 2004 to 2012. “Milestone life events bring parties, and parties bring people and awareness. It just so happened that Marines around the world would be celebrating their birthday, so let’s host the next Marine Corps birthday ball.”
The First Annual City of Grand Rapids Marine Corps Birthday Ball will be held on Monday, Nov. 10, at the DeVos Place, 303 Monroe Ave. NW Grand Rapids. That marks the exact date the Marine Corps was founded 250 years ago; Nov. 10, 1775, in Philadelphia by Commandant Samuel Nicholas.
The Marines were the third branch of the US Armed Forces, arriving five months after the Army and one month after the Navy. Today, the Marine Corps is a component of the U.S. Department of the Navy, with nearly 200,000 active and reserve personnel.
Local veterans at the US Marine Corps War Memorial. (Photo Courtesy, Eric Winters)
The Skinny The event, slated from 5 to 9:30 p.m., begins with a cocktail and social hour, followed by an official ceremony at 6 p.m., dinner at 7 and dancing at 8 p.m.
The goal of Winters and VETS is to fundraise and support the Marines while honoring past and present service members and their families. They are partnering with Creative Community Entertainment (CCE) to host the event.
Additional festivities begin a few days before, with a drone light show at 555 Monroe St. from 5 to 9 p.m. on both Friday and Saturday, Nov. 7 and 8. The light show features live music, vendors and a VIP booth offering alcohol sales.
On Sunday, Nov. 9, from 2 to 6 p.m., there’ll be bowling, arcade games and food at the Main Event Center, located at 3121 28th St. SE, Kentwood. Patrons can present their receipt from the Ball at the Main Event, which will donate 20 percent of all proceeds to it. A Veterans Day parade on Nov. 11 will cap off the weekend. Starting at 6 p.m, it’ll run from Lyon and Ottawa Street through Veterans Memorial Park.
“For Marines, this day is more than a celebration – it is a sacred tradition observed with the reverence of a national holiday,” Winters explained.
Grave Markers from the 22 A Day Suicide Awareness Program on the side of the US-131 highway in Grand Rapids in remembrance of the 22 veterans who take their own lives each day. (Photo Courtesy, Eric Winters)
Marine Ball shy of fundraising goal VETS set an initial fundraising goal of $250,000 by the 250th anniversary Ball, which Winters admits was ambitious. The group has currently raised just over $15,000, with the budget for the ball estimated at $30,000. Members of the public are invited to donate in any way they can to support the cause. Winters notes that VETS will allocate any extra funds raised toward the broader mission of CCE and VETS.
“Your support will not only help us celebrate this historic occasion, it will also empower veterans who have given so much in service to our country,” Winters said.
Tickets can be purchased through Nov. 3. The first 200 guests to register will receive an event T-shirt, a commemorative cup and a challenge coin. Tickets may be purchased at this link.
“Becoming a Marine is a lifelong badge of honor – one earned through dedication, sacrifice and pride,” Winters said. “Marines are not only members of the world’s most elite fighting force, but also part of a greater community that continues to serve and uplift others long after active duty ends.”
Marine Corps veteran Eric Winters (right) with a WWII veteran at a Comstock Park football game where veterans were honored on the field. (Photo Courtesy, Eric Winters)
The Care Resources team often hears, “Now I don’t have to be so lonely!” when introducing participants, ages 55 years and older, to their very own digital dog or cat.
The digital companion is a care.coach Avatar™ on an easy-to-use tablet that provides 24/7 companionship, video visits, health monitoring, medication reminders and more. Measurable benefits include reductions in emergency room visits, falls, loneliness and depression that lead to improved health outcomes in older adults.
Remote health coaching and monitoring capabilities are valuable, in addition to providing social-emotional outcomes (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Garth Falkins helped Care Resources – a Program of All-inclusive Care for the Elderly, or PACE® – first deploy care.coach during the peak of the COVID-19 pandemic to support participants when in-person programs were suspended. Falkins says the remote health coaching and monitoring capabilities continue to be valuable today, in addition to the social-emotional outcomes.
“The device conducts daytime check-ins every few hours, engaging the participant to see if they are doing well, in addition to silent checks during evening hours for any noise or movement that could be cause for concern,” said Falkins, Recreational Therapy Manager at Care Resources.
“There’s a real person behind the avatar, not an artificial intelligence bot, on standby to interact with participants through the device so we can quickly get eyes on them and evaluate the situation.”
A complement to in-person services
At Care Resources, various technology-based devices are used to complement the wide array of in-person services the nonprofit provides to enable older adults to stay safe while living independently in their own homes. Falkins says the digital tools help staff better manage participants’ overall health, while providing caregivers greater reassurance about their loved one living independently.
“Technology is a valuable tool in our toolbox for older adults to promote healthy and independent living,” said Falkins. “At Care Resources, technology such as care.coach has served as an extension of our team, allowing us to continually assess needs and be more proactive, which is showing definite benefits.”
Those benefits include enhanced safety and peace of mind for both participants and their loved ones. With care.coach alone, Care Resources has achieved a nearly 80% reduction in ER visits and a 50% reduction in falls among participants.
Care Resources participant Helene interacts with the interactive game projection system called Tovertafel (Courtesy, Care Resources)
Care Resources also utilizes It’s Never 2 Late, or iN2L, by LifeLoop, which delivers wellness-focused digital content intended to engage older adults. This includes games, travel videos, worship content, music and more.
Care Resources uses iN2L to enhance social activity programming and therapy sessions to help participants have fun while reaching therapeutic goals at one of its two West Michigan day centers.
Yet another technology used by Care Resources is Tovertafel by Tover, an interactive game projection system that uses purposeful play to provide social, physical and cognitive stimulation for seniors living with dementia. Games can be played individually or in a larger group at the day center to promote movement, social interaction and happiness.
“iN2L and Tovertafel enhance our programming and can be utilized for various therapies and educational purposes,” Falkins said. “We’ve seen the technology help participants improve their mobility and hand-eye coordination, among other benefits.”
Additional digital resources
For those not in a program such as Care Resources, Falkins says cell phones, phone apps and smart watches are a few common tools he sees used by older adults and their loved ones for health and safety monitoring and social connection.
Cell phones can also be used to help aging adults (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
One popular product is the GrandPad, a tablet designed to help aging adults enjoy calls, photos, music and games. Falkins has also seen families equip virtual assistants such as Alexa and home monitoring systems to check on loved ones.
A word of caution
While technology can be a great tool for health care professionals and loved ones of older adults, Falkins cautions against entirely relying on it.
“Technology cannot replace the need for human connection and physical touch,” he said. “In-person visits, hugs and meaningful interactions will always be super important.”
Find out more!
For more information about Care Resources, call 800-610-6299 or visit CareResources.org.
For Deb Vazquez, being a volunteer for Emmanuel Hospice is about ensuring patients have “a friend in the end.” It is about providing a friendly face and a caring hand to hold, offering comfort and compassion at the end of life.
Volunteering is about providing a friendly face and a caring hand to hold (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Vazquez began serving as a hospice volunteer earlier in 2025 – along with her husband Tony and their dog Cocoa – as a way to give back. Having experienced parents in hospice, most recently with Tony’s parents in Florida, the couple has seen the benefits of volunteering firsthand.
They found Emmanuel through an online search for hospice in their area and learned the nonprofit is always looking for new volunteers, especially pet visitors. They promptly signed up and completed the volunteer training, Cocoa included.
Vazquez said it has been incredibly rewarding for the whole family.
“The impact of pet visits is amazing,” she said. “Patients absolutely love Cocoa. She’s small enough to sit on people’s laps, and will gaze into their eyes. Patients like to talk or hum to her and pet her. Cocoa just has a great temperament and loves the attention.”
Simple gestures = Profound impact
In addition to visits with Cocoa, Vazquez meets patients one-on-one. In that capacity, she has found the simplest gestures can have a profound impact.
Patients recognize kindness even if they may not be able to talk back to volunteers (Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
“Just holding hands is huge,” said Vazquez. “A couple of patients love when I bring lavender-scented lotion to rub on their hands. It is sweet to see the calm it can bring to them.
“Talking to patients seems to make a difference, too. Even if they are noncommunicative, I’ll get a smile or a hand squeeze back that tells me they know someone is there for them and cares.”
Vazquez is intentional about learning about each person’s life story so she can find ways to personalize visits. Volunteer Coordinator Holly Salas said it is clear Vazquez “cares deeply” about the patients she sees.
“Deb goes above and beyond,” Salas said. “She brings patients treats and flowers, plays music for them and seeks out connection in any way she can. She recently reconnected one of our patients with family members, which was very meaningful to them.”
Childhood foods and marathon gaming
Having an interest in genealogy, Vazquez was eager to help the patient look into his family history and reconnected him with relatives.
“It started with connecting over foods he grew up with living on a farm like I did,“ Vazquez explained. “With permission from his dietitian, I was able to bring him food from his childhood. That brought up a lot of memories and family member names that he hadn’t been able to remember.
“It was just fantastic. You start with talking about something as innocuous as food we enjoyed as kids to find common ground, and then suddenly it’s opening doors to new ways to make someone’s day a little brighter.”
Simple things like food and games can spark long-forgotten memories (Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
Vazquez discovered another patient loves playing games. They now have a three-week game of Monopoly going. That patient also loves playing games with Cocoa.
“The patient will toss dog bones around her room, so Cocoa has to search them out,” Vazquez said. “She gets a real kick out of Cocoa doing this sort of hide and seek.”
Volunteer registration and orientation
To those interested in volunteering with a hospice organization, Vazquez said it is natural to wonder about what it will be like. However, Vazquez assures that any worries will be “far outweighed by the moments of joy you’ll bring.”
To learn more about volunteering with Emmanuel Hospice, email EHvolunteer@EmmanuelHospice.org or call 616-719-0919 and ask for Holly.
An in-person orientation to onboard new volunteers will be offered from 1-4 p.m. on Tuesday, Oct. 21 at the nonprofit’s Grand Rapids office.
American Legion Post 154 Roger B. Chaffee is hosting a Mobility Scooter-Wheelchair Competition to commemorate the Legion 154’s new electric handicap doors (Courtesy, American Legion)
American Legion Post 154 Roger B. Chaffee is hosting a Mobility Scooter-Wheelchair Competition to commemorate the Legion’s new electric handicap doors. Beginning at 2:30 p.m. on Saturday, Sept. 27, participants can expect an afternoon of food and fun.
American Legion Post 154 Mobility Scooter Competition (Courtesy, American Legion)
The event is open to the public and includes prizes for: Best Score on Ballon Obstacle Course, Fastest Time on Scooter Straight Course and Best Overall Trim Package (includes Best Rider Costume, Best Ride Decorations, Best Pit Crew Spirt and Most Unique/Useful Adaptive Aftermarket Equipment). All abilities compete for prizes – including bragging rights and winner trophies.
There will be three independent judges for all competitions. Judges will be announced the day of the event.
Registration as a competitor, pit crew member, attendee, volunteer or vendor can be found here. Competition rules can be found here.
More information about the Mobility Scooter Competition can be found here.
Disability awareness
“Many of our members are veterans or family members who need a bit more assistance than in the past, whether that’s to enter the building, or to carry in a crock-pot for an event like our annual Chili Cook-off,” says Butch Hogan, Post 154 Facilities Manager. “So, upgrading the doors was the right thing to help all, including those with limited mobility.”
American Legion Post 154 Mobility Scooter Competition (Courtesy, American Legion)
The competition event is being held to celebrate both the new Post 154 accessibility and to increase disability awareness.
According to Ken Stockel, Co-chair of the Scooter Competition, “We’re designing the course will all abilities in mind. Although some may compete in a mobility scooter, power wheelchair, or regular wheelchair, we are also having an obstacle competition for able-bodied participants to compete—in a WHEELCHAIR!
“As most servicemen/women learn early in their military training, when you walk in someone else’s ‘boots’ is when you develop empathy – and that’s where disability awareness begins.”
About American Legion Post 154
The American Legion is the largest U.S. veterans organization with more than 1.6 million members who strengthen the nation through programs, services and advocacy for those who have served in the U.S. Armed Forces, youth and communities.
Post 154 is named after Roger B. Chaffee (Feb. 15, 1935 – Jan. 27, 1967), an officer in the United States Navy, and died with fellow astronauts Gus Grissom and Ed White during a pre-launch test for the Apollo I mission.
Located in Veterans Memorial Park and occupying the historic building that originally served as the offices for the West Michigan Tourist & Resort Association and later used as annex offices for the Grand Rapids Children’s Museum, the small veteran-owned café is doing big things.
The HAS HEART Coffee Shop is located in Veterans Memorial Park (Courtesy, HAS HEART)
HAS HEART is a nonprofit veteran-and-designer collaboration that represents hundreds of veterans’ stories and messages through meaningful design creations. The inviting atmosphere is created by a blend of coffee and a mission to give back to those who served our country.
In fact, it was over coffee that Michael Hyacinthe, an 8-year U.S. Navy veteran, and Tyler Way, an artist/designer, met and realized the need to connect their two worlds.
HAS HEART founders Michael Hyacinthe (left) and Tyler Way (Courtesy, HAS HEART)
Finding purpose amidst tragedy
Originally from the Bronx in New York, Hyacinthe served as a U.S. Navy Seabee combat specialist after he graduated high school. Like many veterans, however, Hyacinthe found himself adrift after returning home from military service.
After driving a cab in New York City for two years, Hyacinthe moved to West Michigan where he married and began a family. During that time, a military serviceman Hyacinthe knew was deployed and killed in combat.
Reeling emotionally, Hyacinthe decided to honor all veterans killed in service – and chose Grand Rapids to lay the groundwork.
“This was around the time ArtPrize was really becoming a big thing in Grand Rapids, and I saw how the city came together through art,” said Hyacinthe. “So I came here.”
Power in creativity
“Total Sacrifice” t-shirt designed by a U.S. Marine and Tyler Way (Courtesy, HAS HEART)
In 2011, Hyacinthe met a wounded U.S. Marine at a local veterans event. The Marine was paralyzed from the neck down and unable to speak due to injuries sustained in Iraq. However, he was able to share his story with Hyacinthe through an alphanumeric communication code translated on a clipboard by his full-time nurse.
Upon learning of the Marine’s passion for graphic t-shirts, Hyachinthe put plans in motion that would allow the young veteran to design his own.
“Recognizing the power in providing this wounded Marine the opportunity to design, we created a t-shirt for him called ‘Total Sacrifice,’” said Hyacinthe. “He designed it by using a very unique alphanumeric code where he had to blink. A certain number of blinks represented a certain letter, and that’s how we were able to design his t-shirt called ‘Total Sacrifice.’”
Hyacinthe and Way began designing t-shirts and donating the proceeds to various veteran organizations. By 2012, however, they had shifted their focus to center more on the veterans.
“We said, let’s pivot away from designing t-shirts ourselves and empower these veterans who have been wounded to design,” said Hyacinthe. “That’s when we decided to connect them with creative designers.”
More and more veterans began expressing their desire to create t-shirt designs. It was then that Hyacinthe and Way knew they needed to empower veterans across the U.S. to utilize the power of creativity to heal. That realization inspired them to create HAS HEART.
U.S. Navy Veteran Darrel Charles works with Miami-based graphic designer Brittany Ballinger to create the design “L’Union” (Courtesy, HAS HEART)
“Many of these veterans are disabled and can’t write,” said Hyacinthe. “These designers have the education and the experience of being professional designers, but many of them don’t know the military world because rarely are many of us connected.”
The HAS HEART Coffee Shop officially opened its doors in Veterans Memorial Park on Nov. 11, 2023 – Veterans Day.
Originally, the historical building housing HAS HEART was used solely for showcasing veterans’ art. But then…coffee.
“We decided to open up HAS HEART Coffee Shop where you can come and get a cup of coffee,” said Hyacinthe. “Veterans get a free cup of coffee. Then [patrons] can experience the designs created by the veterans.”
Approximately 30-40 veterans visit the HAS HEART Coffee Shop daily.
HAS HEART Coffee Shop (Courtesy, HAS HEART)
HAS HEART Coffee Shop (Courtesy, HAS HEART)
HAS HEART Coffee Shop (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
HAS HEART Coffee Shop (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
HAS HEART inception timeline (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
An outlet for healing and rebuilding
Hyacinthe dreams of HAS HEART one day becoming a retail space with all merchandise created by American veterans.
“Our goal is to one day open up a full retail store where people can come in and purchase products that were created by heroes who sacrificed,” said Hyacinthe. “Many of us come back home and we want to pursue the American dream of wealth and success, so we want to provide them that outlet.”
2024 ArtPrize public vote-winning entry, “Dynamic Sunset,” by Purple Heart veteran John Katerberg (Courtesy, HAS HEART)
The military, Hyacinthe said, completely strips you of your individuality. “You are now part of something bigger than yourself, and you need to recognize that you are not the most important piece of this thing.”
However, Hyacinthe continued, when someone leaves the military, regaining that sense of individuality is vital.
“It’s what allows you to survive in the world where you need to be an individual, because no one is telling you what to do,” said Hyacinthe.
That disconnect, coupled with trauma experienced through combat, PTSD, and physical and mental injuries, makes it difficult for veterans to re-acclimate to civilian life.
Hyacinthe believes creativity is a path of healing for many veterans because it gives them the ability to be heard.
Designer Chuck Anderson (left) helped U.S. Air Force Veteran Israel Del Toro (D.T.) design “Thru the Fire” (Courtesy, HAS HEART and Terry Johnston)
“To be heard, and to get what’s in your mind out into something visual so that you can see it, you can finally control it,” said Hyacinthe. “It’s the expression that this is real.”
As a veteran battling PTSD, Hyacinthe calls HAS HEART’s mission his therapy.
“There’s something really unique about veterans,” said Hyacinthe. “We tend to want to serve. If you give us a platform where we can continue to serve, they will find a medium to heal. And for me, this is continuing to serve through connecting veterans and giving them hope, giving them purpose through HAS HEART.”
Help empower veterans
Financial support is essential to the HAS HEART mission. Many veterans are flown into Grand Rapids to work with HAS HEART designers, and each HAS HEART veteran receives a stipend to accommodate their time.
“They’re not just all local, they’re from all over,” said Hyacinthe. “We’ve worked with hundreds of veterans.”
Raising awareness of HAS HEART’s mission, Hyacinthe went on to say, happens when people share their story online, purchase veteran-made products, make a donation, or come to the cafe and acknowledge and experience the storytelling being done.
Veterans and artists interested in participating in HAS HEART’s mission can contact Hyacinthe and Way here.
For many West Michigan seniors, Care Resources is truly “home away from home” – and this month, they celebrated with a special homecoming dance.
“Dances create an exciting ‘out of the ordinary’ environment where participants can let loose and have fun,” said Care Resources Recreation Therapist Nicole Steed, adding that dances are highly requested by residents.
Recreation Therapist Nicole Steed welcomes dance participants (Courtesy, Care Resources)
“We try to do a dance on a quarterly basis,” Steed continued, naming luaus, discos and seasonal dances as previous day center dance themes. Decorations and costumes make each dance unique. “We typically do a homecoming dance and prom each year to spark nostalgia for school dances.
“It also proves that there is no age limit on the ability to have a good time and have fun.”
A one-stop shop
As a Program of All-Inclusive Care for the Elderly, also known as PACE, the nonprofit serves as a single resource to keep seniors healthy, independent and at home.
“We are that one-stop shop helping participants not only take care of medical needs but also their social and emotional needs,” said Steed. “It’s a place they can fully feel taken care of, and they have a lot of pride in the program.”
To bolster that pride and celebrate National PACE Month in September, Care Resources hosted a special homecoming dance on Sept. 9 at its Grand Rapids day center.
“Our day center is a place designed to make all participants feel welcome,” said Steed. “We are a community here. By making it a ‘homecoming dance,’ we’re emphasizing to participants that this is their home.”
The Care Resources recreational therapy team had as much fun as the day center visitors (Courtesy, Care Resources)
While having fun, participants also received a host of health benefits from the event.
“This dance is designed to bring our participants a sense of purpose and promote that community feeling here,” Steed added. “It’ll be a great way to move their bodies and get some fitness in while socializing with others. It really encompasses all areas of health and wellness.”
Taking ownership and having fun
To further celebrate PACE Month, the Care Resources recreational therapy team wanted to allow participants to showcase their thoughts and feelings about the day center, as well as take part in the decorating aspect.
Pennant banners created by participants show what Care Resources means to them (Courtesy, Care Resources)
This included pennant banners quoting individual participants’ thoughts on what Care Resources PACE means to them.
“One of my favorites,” said Steed, “stated, ‘I wake up every day to be able to come into the center.’ That really shows how special Care Resources is.”
Completed Care Resources pennant banners (Courtesy, Care Resources)
Participants also created and hung signs around the center, arranged flower displays for the tables and made a streamer wall, which was the main backdrop for our dance.
“This demonstrates how the dance was designed for and by them to celebrate our love for the day center and Care Resources in general,” said Steed.
“All in all, we had an absolute blast! Happy PACE Month!”
Learn more
For more information about Care Resources and the resources they offer, visit CareResources.org.
Twenty-five representatives from various organizations gathered at Neland Avenue Church to collaborate and share about local efforts to safeguard our youth (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
Jennifer Franson, Founder and Executive Director of iCI Nation (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
Wyoming resident and founder of iCI Nation, Jennifer Franson, is dedicated to strengthening communities by building relationships and trust between local police and community members. This mission is achieved through the work of iCI Nation on a daily basis.
Franson hosted an informal meet and greet in August with Kent County Juvenile Services (KCJS), the Grand Rapids Police Department (GRPD) South Service Area and various nonprofit organizations in the South Service Area.
The idea was born from an iCI Nation Lunch N Learn event in March featuring KCJS and the GRPD.
“I learned about Juvenile Services and how they are changing their system, looking to be much more reformative with kids, and looking to change and work with the community in new ways,” said Franson.
Knowing KCJS staff would benefit from knowing more about resources and nonprofits already available in the community, Franson began doing what she does best – forging connections.
“We want them to be able to learn about all of you,” Franson said during the meet and greet introduction, “but also, we’re going to learn about each other. If nothing else, this is encouraging for us to see and learn all the good that’s happening in our city.”
Creating partnerships
Twenty-five representatives from various organizations gathered at Neland Avenue Church to collaborate and share about local efforts to safeguard our youth.
“We are all here because we are all protecting and serving the city,” said Franson. “You guys are invested physically, mentally [and] financially in protecting and serving the city.”
Awareness of community resources allows for multiple avenues of reform (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
Jana Forner, Captain of the Grand Rapids Police East Service Area, echoed Franson’s sentiments, saying that being aware of services available in the community helps law enforcement determine whether a situation is best resolved with reformatory action, connections to resources or enforcement action.
“Bringing everyone together regularly helps you serve the community, us serve the community, and then create partnerships to help our communities,” said Forner. “In this case, juvenile justice. This is just the first step in making sure we all can collaborate now and in the future.”
Intentional and focused efforts
Chris Burgess, Community Probation Supervisor for Kent County, highlighted several areas of reform currently happening in the court system due to juvenile justice reform legislation passed in 2023 by the Michigan State Legislature. The legislation gave courts increased opportunities to incorporate community-based services that are research-driven, evidence-based and culturally appropriate.
Intentional programming and positive interactions help keep youth on the right path (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
“Programs that qualify underneath those different labels and documents are really what the state is looking for to evolve our kids in the community and provide rehabilitative services and potential alternatives for those kids so that we don’t keep them in detention,” said Burgess.
The court’s efforts have become much more intentional and focused on putting forward principles and programming that generate quality interactions and help youth build skills to cope with certain aspects of life, find resources, navigate the decision-making process and be solution-oriented.
After-school and evening programming that provide positive activities and interactions are essential to helping youth stay on the right path.
(Left to right) Chris Burgess, Frank Briones, Sandra Vanderhyde and Cara Lemmen (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
Frank Briones, Program Director for Kent County Juvenile Services, develops this programming through collaborations and partnerships with community businesses and organizations. But developing relationships with our youth, Briones said, is the most essential component.
“Trust, rapport, and respect is big for us in building those relationships with our kids. Having that trust, having that rapport is huge.”
Protecting and serving…together
Building relationships and trust, Franson said, is vital for any reform to be successful.
“This is our government partnering with you because they want to better serve everybody and call out the value in everybody – even our troubled youth,” said Franson. “The system isn’t perfect, but we’re here and excited to partner with them.”
Building relationships and trust is vital in generating change (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
Among those looking to provide positive life-changing resources and programming and help eliminate barriers for youth were representatives from several local nonprofits.
Information and resources offered by these nonprofits can be found at the links below:
GRPD Captain Jana Forner (left), Jenn Franson and Amanda Afman (Courtesy, iCI Nation)
For Franson, the identity of a city is not one of perfection.
Looking at event participants, Franson said, “It’s this. It’s people who [say]: ‘We are a community, we’re a family and we’re going to do what we can, even sacrifice ourselves, our time, our talents, our treasures to benefit the city and everybody.’
“This really calls out the value of everyone…and I thank you all for protecting and serving together to make this city great.”
Cars aren’t just timeless works of art – they are vehicles for lasting memories. Care Resources hosted an antique car show for its participants, ages 55 years and older, to reminisce about and enjoy on Thursday, July 31.
Seniors reminisced about cars they had in their younger years (Courtesy, Care Resources)
Grand Rapids Antique Car Club showcased 12 antique cars in the parking lot of the nonprofit’s Grand Rapids day center. Participants had the opportunity to admire the fleet of automobiles, connect with local car enthusiasts and take a trip down memory lane.
And those memories, said Recreational Therapist Megan Bollo, are what make the program so special.
“This event allowed participants to enjoy the outdoors, get some exercise and reminisce about the “good ‘ole times,” said Bollo. “All of which contribute to their physical and mental well-being.”
The car show also promotes intergenerational socialization (Courtesy, Care Resources)
Bollo went on to say that the event went well, with many smiles and laughs along the way.
“Our participants love interacting with car owners of all ages – it brings out a lot of joy and fond memories.”
One participant who worked on cars as a hobby in the past enjoyed looking at the engines and talking with the owners about the work they had done to restore the vehicles.
Laughter and smiles were in abundance during the car show (Courtesy, Care Resources)
Care Resources
The antique car show was just one of the many programs the Care Resources team organizes to meet the mental, social and physical needs of the older adults it serves as a Program of All-inclusive Care for the Elderly, also known as PACE®. This innovative community-based program, funded by Medicare and Medicaid, promotes healthy and independent living while working to prevent nursing home placement.
Catherine’s Health Center CEO Megan Erskine (left) shaking hands with Mel Trotter CEO Chris Palusky celebrating the joint partnership to operate a full-service medical clinic at Mel Trotter Ministries (Courtesy, Mel Trotter Ministries)
Mel Trotter Ministries, the largest provider of services to people experiencing homelessness in West Michigan, announced an expansion of its partnership with Catherine’s Health Center. This expansion will result in increased health clinic services for guests staying at Mel Trotter’s shelter at 225 Commerce SW in Grand Rapids.
Catherine’s is now offering full-time medical care at Mel Trotter Ministries. This new partnership will provide 40 hours per week of comprehensive primary care services to guests, with plans to expand access to the broader Heartside community by early 2026.
Mishel Pollard of Catherine’s Health Center standing in the hallway at the full-service medical clinic (Courtesy, Mel Trotter Ministries)
The clinic will serve as a “medical home” for individuals experiencing homelessness, offering walk-in appointments and a full spectrum of services including substance use disorder (SUD) treatment and medications for opioid use disorder (MOUD), immunizations, screenings, well-child visits, diagnostic lab services, chronic disease management, and referrals to specialty care.
Additional care
In addition to primary care, Catherine’s will provide:
16 hours per week of dental hygiene services
4 hours per week of psychiatric care
40 hours per week of case management support
The entrance to the full-service clinic at Mel Trotter Ministries (Courtesy, Mel Trotter Ministries)
Bringing integrated services to the community
“We are grateful to Mel Trotter Ministries and their generous partners and donors for laying the foundation for this model of care,” said Megan Erskine, CEO at Catherine’s Health Center. “Their commitment over the past four years…has made it possible for us to expand our place-based care model and bring full-time, integrated services to this community.”
Catherine’s Health Center staff working in the full-service medical clinic. Left to right: Ollie Irwin, Mishel Pollard, Bettie DeChemin (Courtesy, Mel Trotter Ministries)
Catherine’s has spent the last three years delivering healthcare directly to the unhoused in shelters, churches and encampments. The new clinic represents the next evolution of this work, complemented by a mobile medical van that will continue to provide outreach and services across the region.
“We’re extremely pleased to expand our relationship with Catherine’s Health Center so that we can deliver the best possible care to our guests,” said Chris Palusky, CEO at Mel Trotter Ministries.
“When our renovated clinic space opened two years ago, it was our goal to provide services that healed the body and the spirit of those in need of assistance. This new service agreement will help us do that by bringing a more complete spectrum of care for anyone coming to our shelter.”
Tammy Morgan of Catherine’s Health Center working in an exam room at the full-service medical clinic (Courtesy, Mel Trotter Ministries)
The initiative goal is to provide personalized and dignified care to guests while reducing non-urgent emergency department visits and unnecessary hospitalizations. Ultimately, leaders at Mel Trotter Ministries and Catherine’s Health Center believe that improved physical and mental health outcomes will enhance housing opportunities and stability for individuals trapped in the cycle of homelessness.
Stay tuned!
The clinic expects to open its doors to anyone experiencing homelessness starting in October. An open house at the clinic is planned for Oct. 22.
To view Catherine’s Health Center upcoming events, click here.
Onyx, a four-year-old black Labrador Retriever, has become a beloved member of the Davenport Community and has captured the hearts of faculty, staff and students (Courtesy, Davenport University)
Two years ago, Davenport University welcomed a very special employee to campus, Onyx the therapy dog. The four-year-old black Labrador Retriever has since become a beloved member of the Davenport Community and has captured the hearts of faculty, staff and students.
Brett Windsor, Assistant Director of Davenport’s Department of Public Safety, was instrumental in bringing Onyx to campus.
(Courtesy, Davenport University)
“In my previous role with the University of Michigan Health-West hospital, I witnessed people suffering from mental health crises and wanted to provide more support to those individuals in need,” said Windsor.
“When I transitioned to Davenport, I responded to multiple student residents with mental health needs, so I knew our team could use a therapy dog to better connect with them and the entire Davenport community.”
Putting her best paw forward
Thanks to the Davenport University M.E. Legacy Endowment Fund grant, Windsor brought his therapy dog program to life by working with Paws With A Cause, an international nonprofit organization headquartered in Wayland, MI.
Onyx had already completed a year and a half of training when she was selected to join the Davenport family. Another 18 weeks of training with Windsor followed so she could put her best paw forward when she arrived on campus.
Windsor said what makes Onyx special is that she can adapt her demeanor to match the students’ moods.
“Some students prefer a more energetic version of Onyx, where she is standing up and passing out kisses, and some prefer her lying down in a calm manner,” he said. “She can actually judge what each person is looking for. She is a happy, excited dog who loves to meet people and be petted.”
Onyx is putting her innate talent to good use, joining Windsor on around 100 hours of community engagement this school year alone. Events have included classroom visits, freshman orientations, Davenport athletic events, new hire orientations, National Night Out, Hanger Clinic Adaptive Field Day and more.
“This was 100 hours of Onyx and the Public Safety team having conversations that wouldn’t have happened otherwise, and 100 hours of brightening peoples’ day,” said Windsor.
Having therapy dogs on campus provides a sense of calm to students in a typically high-stress time (Courtesy, Davenport University)
A sense of calm during chaos
One of the pair’s highlights came recently when they welcomed the West Michigan Therapy Dogs to the Academic Building on the W.A. Lettinga Grand Rapids Campus to provide emotional support to students during finals week.
According to Danielle Pipal, Assistant Director for Student Life, the therapy dogs have visited campus during finals week for about 10 years, and it might be one of the students’ favorite days of the year.
“Having the dogs on campus provides a sense of calm to our students in a typically high-stress time,” said Pipal. “Exams are certainly stressful, and many of our students haven’t been home in a while, which adds another stress level. Seeing the dogs on campus provides a sense of safety and comfort while they are wrapping up the semester.”
For Onyx, attending these events and helping out at the Wellness Center on the Lettinga Grand Rapids Campus isn’t just another day on the job; she seems to enjoy it.
“She likes to see her friends on campus every day, loves to play fetch in the gym and roll around in the grass in the summer and the snow in the winter. She’s just an all-around great dog,” Windsor said.
“Studies have shown that interacting with pets can significantly reduce cortisol levels, which are known stress indicators,” said Windsor. “Onyx’s addition to the team gives us a tool to diffuse difficult situations and help students relax. She has already proven herself to be a valuable resource to the Davenport Community.”
Follow Onyx!
Follow Onyx’s journey on campus on Instagram: K9_Onyx.
Care Resources recently hosted its own “senior prom” for program participants, ages 55 years and older, at its Grand Rapids facility. (WKTV Journal / Jaylah Lewis)
Care Resources recently hosted its own “senior prom” for program participants, ages 55 years and older, at its Grand Rapids facility.
“Cinderella’s Ball” was the culmination of a month of princess-themed recreational programming that included Disney movies and a royal tea party. Attended by approximately 80 seniors, the event featured cupcakes, punch, music – and the crowning of a prom king and queen.
The purpose?
While fun is at the top of the list, Recreational Therapist Sabrina Cusenza says there are great health benefits to activities like “Cinderella’s Ball.”
“Our main goal is to bring joy to our participants and staff, who will also get dressed up and join the fun,” Cusenza says. “But there are functional aspects of programs like this that support participants’ health and well-being.
“Our participants will get physical activity in through the dancing. The socialization is great for emotion well-being. We’ll also incorporate some reminiscing about prom, which has cognitive and mental health benefits.”
Learn more!
A local community-based program of all-inclusive care for the elderly, Care Resources promotes healthy, independent living and helps prevent nursing home placement. Care Resources staff regularly provide entertainment via events and programs that also support participants’ health and well-being.
Learn more about all Care Resources has to offer here.
The first session focuses on grief support and will be held June 16-20. The second session will focus on cancer support and be held June 23-27. Each session will be held on Monday, Wednesday and Friday.
Campers do not have to be a Gilda’s Club member to participate and may join and attend any or all camp dates that fit their schedule.
Catch all the sparkling details here:
Camp Sparkle supports overall emotional health and is open to children from all surrounding communities.
(Courtesy, Gilda’s Club)
The program provides children with a chance to connect and interact with other children who having gone through cancer, have been impacted by a cancer journey of someone in their life, or experienced grief because of the death of a family member or friend.
Camp Sparkle is facilitated by Gilda’s Club professional program staff, is supported by trained volunteers, and will feature activities focusing on emotional well-being.
The camp will host guests from community partners including Grand Rapids Symphony, Josh Dunigan with Drums for All, and Grand Rapids Public Library. During the grief session on June 18, those in attendance will have an opportunity to learn breakdancing with Teknique Street Dance Academy.
Pre-registration is required. Those interested can register online here, email cfaust@gildasclubgr.org, or call 616-453-8300, ext. 117.
First Session: Grief Support
Monday, June 16 – 9:15 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Wednesday, June 18 – 9:15 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Friday, June 20 – 9:15 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Second Session: Cancer Support
Monday, June 23 – 9:15 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Wednesday, June 25 – 9:15 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Friday, June 27 – 9:15 a.m. to 3 p.m.
Note: Family day activities will be scheduled from 1-3 p.m. on the last day of camp for each session.
Grab a four-legged friend for this popular community event filled with music, food, drinks, and fun – all while supporting a great cause (Courtesy, Hats & Hounds)
Dust off your best hat and grab a four-legged friend for the popular Hats & Hounds popular community event filled with music, food, drinks and fun – all while supporting a great cause.
There will be a chance to win a prize for Best Dressed Hound & Handler – so don your best outfit! (Courtesy, PAWS)
Event details
This evening of fun will take place on Thursday, May 22 at 6 p.m. at Wildwood Family Farms located at 7970 Snow Ave SE, Alto, MI 49302. Guests will enjoy toe-tapping bluegrass music from the Round Creek Trio, indulge in southern-inspired food and beverages, take part in exciting raffles and games, and have the chance to win a prize for the Best Dressed Hound & Handler Contest.
Tickets are just $25 per person and include all food and drinks. In addition to the fun, attendees will meet PAWS clients and learn firsthand about the life-changing impact PAWS assistance dogs have on individuals with disabilities.
Financial support is needed as the need for assistance dogs increases (Courtesy, PAWS)
“It’s exciting to bring this event back for another year. Last year, we were able to raise $15,000 for our mission and this year we’re hoping to raise even more,” said Ashley Diersch, Chief Advancement Officer at PAWS.
“There is a growing need for assistance dogs, and the need for financial support continues to grow as well. With the challenges of inflation and the uncertainty with the economy, we need more help from our community to continue this life-changing work. Every ticket purchase helps!”
Personal pets are welcome, but must be over 16 weeks old, fully vaccinated, leashed and under the control of their owner at all times. If you are unable to attend but still want to support PAWS, donations are welcomed and can be made online.
In 2005, Wyoming native Carol Jennings suffered an ischemic stroke that paralyzed her right side and rendered speech nearly impossible (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Carol Jennings says angels live at Mary Free Bed (Courtesy photo)
In July 2005, Wyoming native Carol Jennings suffered an ischemic stroke that paralyzed her right side and rendered speech nearly impossible.
Twenty years later, 82-year-old Jennings is living a full life, and she says it is largely due to the care she received at Mary Free Bed Rehabilitation Hospital (MFB) in Grand Rapids.
“Mary Free Bed, they have angels that live there,” says Jennings. “The therapists work very hard, and they were just wonderful.”
The journey to recovery, however, was not easy – or short.
A long road home
Jennings and her husband Chuck were far from home when she suffered the stroke. On their way home from Boston, MA, the couple stayed overnight at a hotel in Syracuse, NY. Jennings had a headache that night and took medication to help her sleep.
The next morning, they were packing for the trip back to Michigan when Jennings realized something was not right.
“I was going to drive, and I had gone out to the car and fixed the seat, went back in and stroked,” says Jennings. “I don’t remember a thing after that.”
Jennings does not remember much about the day of her stroke (Courtesy photo)
At St. Joesph’s Health Hospital, Jennings received a clot buster injection to help break up the clot on the left side of her brain. The next thing Jennings remembers is opening her eyes to find a nurse leaning over her, asking if she felt better.
“I couldn’t answer her,” Jennings recounts in a book called The Promised Piece. “I could think, but couldn’t say anything.
“I had so many questions, and my lips and my heart were separated by miles. I couldn’t coordinate my thinking or my hearing, and now my eyes were tearing up and my voice was absent. I was instantly experiencing total grief.”
Jennings underwent treatment at St. Joseph’s for 11 days.
Restoring hope and freedom
Mary Free Bed is the nation’s most comprehensive rehabilitation provider and one of the largest not-for-profit, independent rehabilitation hospital systems in the country, states the MFB website.
MBF’s roots date back to 1891, when a small group of women wanted to help people who could not afford health care. Today, MFB works to restore hope and freedom through specialized physical medicine and rehabilitation programs and services.
Jennings was flown to MFB in Michigan where she underwent treatment for another 19 days.
(Courtesy photo)
Tough love
Jennings’ entire right side was paralyzed. She choked when swallowing ice chips, liquids and soft foods, making eating and drinking nearly impossible.
Her weakened right hand became the helping hand instead of the dominant. Jennings had to relearn how to perform numerous tasks, such as eating and writing, using her left hand.
Through everything, Jennings’ husband and her lifelong friend, Marilyn Emery, remained by her side. They provided love and support as Jennings worked toward regaining a normal life.
Jennings’ occupational therapist (Kristi) and speech therapist (Marie) also played a vital role in her recovery and provided Jennings with hope. She remains close with both women today.
“They work so hard, even if you stumble and don’t want to do [things],” says Jennings. “They keep you going. They are just so patient; they really are angels.”
Forever changed
After undergoing years of speech therapy for aphasia, Jennings now puts voice to her thoughts and questions. However, that voice now carries a different pitch, and she is often mistaken for having an accent.
Carol Jennings (right) shares about the challenges and recovery of her stroke (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
When Jennings gave a speech and asked to see the recording, Emery hesitated, knowing the pitch and tone of Jennings’ voice was lower than before the stroke.
“I didn’t know if she should listen to it, but she wanted to use it as a tool for her voice pitch,” says Emery. “She cried when she listened to her speech and said, ‘Did I really sound like that?’”
In order to be discharged from the therapy program, Jennings had to go out to lunch with Chuck and her therapist, order from the menu, and pay for the meal herself. She also had to pass a driving test. Jennings flunked the test the first time because her leg wasn’t strong enough to hit the brake pedal.
But she refused to give up.
“She’s a fighter”
Jennings attended therapy seven days a week, a daunting and difficult schedule.
Tasks that previously took no effort or thought now put Jennings’ sanity and patience to the test.
Jennings got her wish and once again danced with her husband Art (Courtesy, MFB)
As Chuck drove Jennings to therapy appointments, he read street signs and billboards, then encouraged Jennings to repeat them.
“I didn’t realize that I had to put my tongue a certain way when I said certain words,” says Jennings, adding that it was one more thing to relearn.
“It came back. Everything will come back, but it takes so long. I learned patience.”
When asked by the MFB marketing department to name the one thing Jennings wanted to do again, her reply was instant: “Dance with my husband.”
In time, Jennings once again danced in Chuck’s arms, their picture gracing local billboards and television screens as a testament to MFB’s rehabilitation skills. But much of that healing and strength came from Jennings herself.
“She’s a fighter,” said Emery. “She is a marvelous witness of what can happen.”
Faith, family and friendship
A large part of Jennings’ healing, she said, also came from her relationship with God.
“My mind never shut down, but I couldn’t talk much. All of a sudden, I said, ‘You know, Lord, if you want me to live, what do you want me to do? I can’t do anything.’”
(Courtesy photo)
Jennings would talk with God daily as she struggled in therapy.
“Just going there helped me to realize that God had to be working for me because some days I couldn’t work for myself,” said Jennings. “I would go, but He would give me the strength.
“My relationship [with Him] grew and grew. And He got me better. Better to do what? To help write a book.”
When planning the book, Emery asked Jennings what came to mind when she said God. Jennings replied: Center.
“I thought, God will be the center of our book,” says Emery. “That He pulled her through, and she needed Him. We were there because she survived.”
Working on the book with Emery forced Jennings to utilize her mind and gave her purpose. “I felt the power of friendship,” says Jennings. “They were pulling for me, and I thought: I’m not going to let them down.”
“There is power in friendship.”
Jennings and Emery view each other as sisters (Courtesy, Deborah Reed)
“Carol told me that the book and all of her friendships gave her purpose,” says Emery. “You remember those people who were there for you. You never forget it.
“We’re sisters. Not of blood, but we’re sisters.”
The friends and family that banded around Jennings during her recovery, Emery continues, is a testament to the impact Jennings makes on others’ lives.
“She’s somebody you don’t forget,” says Emery.
Moving forward – with ink
Jennings’ tattoo reminds her that she is a survivor (Courtesy, Jennings)
Five years after her stroke, Jennings returned to Syracuse to meet those at St. Joseph’s who helped her. Being able to thank her “angels” in person gave Jennings a sense of thankfulness and appreciation.
A tattoo with the date of her stroke now encircles Jennings’ right ankle.
“The inking is a reminder that I am a survivor,” says Jennings. “I never wanted to forget what I went through.”
Though not always easy, Jennings continues trying new things – and spending time with friends.
Read more about the lifelong bond between Carol Jennings and Marilyn Emery here.
More information about the book, The Power of Friendship, can be found here and here.
It is important to talk with loved ones about your health care wishes and designate someone to make decisions on your behalf when you are no longer able to do so (Courtesy, Emmanuel Hospice)
Who will make decisions about your health in the event you are not able to make them yourself?
That is the question at the heart of National Healthcare Decisions Day. Every April, this annual initiative emphasizes the importance of talking with loved ones about your health care wishes, formally documenting those wishes and designating someone to make decisions on your behalf when you are no longer able to do so.
This process, known as advance care planning, is something Britt Fischer regularly discusses with patients and families in her role as a social worker with Emmanuel Hospice. In Fischer’s experience, many people wait until retirement or until they have a serious incident or diagnosis, but the conversation should happen sooner.
“Working for a hospice provider really opened my eyes,” Fischer says. “Every day is not guaranteed, so it is never too soon to get these plans in place.”
Many people wait to plan until retirement or until they have a serious incident or diagnosis, but the conversation should happen sooner (Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
Health, decision and rights
Advance care planning can be intimidating to talk about because of the stigma around end-of-life discussions in our society, but Fischer likes to say, “it is less about death and dying, and more about your health, your decisions and your rights.”
“Everyone has the right to know who is going to be making decisions for them,” she says. “Everyone should be able to feel confident that person is going to make decisions that are in line with their wishes – not anyone else’s.”
To help broach the topic with loved ones, Fischer recommends four conversations starters:
I recently learned about advance care planning. Have you discussed your wishes for future medical decisions with any loved ones?
Do you know who would be your health care proxy or durable power of attorney for health care if you couldn’t make decisions for yourself?
Do you know if you have an advance directive in place? If not, can I help you with one?
What do you think are the most important decisions to make ahead of time regarding your health?
Clarification and documentation
Fischer recognizes advance care planning can also be confusing because there are a lot of different terms that are used – many of which mean the same thing.
“We want to see a durable power of attorney designated specifically for health care,” Fischer clarifies. “This is sometimes referred to as a health care proxy or patient advocate, but what it comes down to is whether you have in writing who will be responsible for making decisions for different medical events. We recommend listing additional people as backups in case the first-named person is unable to serve when the time comes.”
Filling out an advance directive form will serve as a legal guide for designating a decision maker and documenting your wishes (Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
Filling out an advance directive form will serve as a legal guide for designating that decision maker and documenting your wishes. It is recommended to review and update your advance directive anytime one of the “3 Ds” happen – death, divorce or diagnosis.
“There are many advance directive forms available online,” Fischer says. “CaringInfo.org is a great resource to find an appropriate one for your state. You’ll also need two people who are not related to you to witness. Often neighbors or friends can help with that part. Notarization is not necessary.”
In the state of Michigan, living wills are not legally binding. Only a durable power of attorney for health care can ensure your wishes are honored.
Fischer also recommends filling out a Michigan funeral representative form, which designates someone to make decisions about funeral arrangements and cremation.
“I’ve found it’s best to be clear and concise about what you want to happen at the end of life,” Fischer says. “This ensures your wishes are honored, rather than leaving your loved ones to guess or debate during an already difficult time.”
While it’s no secret physical activity is one of the most important ways to maintain good health, fitting in regular movement is easier said than done, especially as we age.
To make exercise more accessible, “exercise snacking” is growing in popularity for older adults. The idea is to incorporate small bursts of activity into your everyday routine.
‘A little bit a lot’
These “snacks” of activity can involve movement that already occurs in your daily life – things like getting up and down from a chair multiple times or doing weight shifts while washing dishes.
Increasing every day movements can produce healthy results (Courtesy photo)
“This is what I like to call the ‘little bit a lot’ approach,” says Peter Vander Weide, a physical therapist at Care Resources in Grand Rapids who has been a clinical specialist in geriatric physical therapy for 20 years. “You’re more likely to do it because you don’t consider it a formal exercise program. Rather, you’re just doing a little more activity than you normally do each day. It’s a mental shift.”
There’s also the convenience of not needing any special equipment and being able to exercise snack anywhere spontaneously throughout your day. As it turns out, a “little bit a lot” adds up. According to the National Council on Aging, recent research has shown exercise snacks can lead to “significant health gains.”
A phenomenal impact
From his decades supporting older adults, Vander Weide can’t emphasize enough the need to stay active.
Regular physical activity generates both physical and mental health benefits (Courtesy photo)
“As we get older, our connective tissue becomes inflexible and we gradually lose muscle with aging, which is called Sarcopenia,” he says. “Some sources say people can experience 50% muscle loss by 80 years old.”
But the benefits of achieving regular physical activity are plentiful, Vander Weide notes.
“Regular physical activity will help you maintain maximum strength and improve circulation, digestion, respiratory function and flexibility while reducing joint pain,” he says. “Then there’s the impact on mental health. Exercise increases levels of serotonin and helps the body release endorphins that are better than eating a piece of chocolate. These decrease pain, depression and anxiety.
“Bottom line: Exercise is phenomenal for aging individuals – and for all of us, really.”
Simply moving
Vander Weide acknowledges it takes effort to exercise, and that alone can be a barrier. He says this concept of snacking works better because it’s not asking you to run a marathon, it’s inspiring you to find simple ways to do more a little bit at a time.
“You just simply have to move,” he urges.
Examples of suggested exercise snacks include:
Lean into the counters in your home to stretch your calf muscles out.
Grab on to your kitchen sink and do weight shifts side to side and then front to back.
Do a few sit-to-stands from a chair.
Side-step from one room to another and back.
Speed up your pace as you walk through a hallway in your home.
March in place while looking for something in the fridge or pantry.
Moving with intention
Lastly, Vander Weide cautions to do these movements with intentionality. He believes one of the most important concepts to understand in aging is that the body compensates to failure.
Moving with intention is vital to maintaining normal function (Courtesy photo)
As your muscles get weaker or your body alters function due to pain, the brain will figure out how to compensate to accomplish the task. This may work for a while, but it often leads to further dysfunction. If proper form is used during exercise snacks, your body will regain or maintain “normal” function.
For more information on physical therapy and group exercise classes provided by Care Resources for adults 55 years and older, call 800-610-6299 or visit CareResources.org.
TREASURE, a lovable Golden Retriever, joined the Casula family as Nolan’s SDA companion last year. The service dog quickly became Nolan’s new best friend, helping him navigate the world and offering comfort and support.
In recognition of Autism Awareness Week (March 24-28) and Autism Awareness Day (April 2), PAWS shined a spotlight on the impact of SDAs like TREASURE and the ongoing efforts to meet the rapidly increasing demand for these dogs.
PAWS provides custom-trained assistance dogs that empower individuals living with disabilities to lead fuller, more independent lives (Courtesy, PAWS)
The impact of SDAs
PAWS provides custom-trained assistance dogs that empower individuals living with disabilities to lead fuller, more independent lives. One category of assistance dogs is SDAs.
These dogs play a crucial role for children on the spectrum by enhancing social interactions, expanding verbal and nonverbal communication, teaching life skills, increasing interest in activities, and reducing stress within the family – something the Casula family can attest to.
Nolan’s parents, Vanessa and Derek Casula, shared, “The impact that TREASURE has had on our family has been nothing but positive. What once were challenges are no longer the case.
“We no longer have to dread bedtime, we no longer have to dread simplistic things such as showering or brushing teeth. I don’t have to try to convince him to read a story because now he willingly does so to his best friend TREASURE.”
An increasing demand
(Courtesy, pxhere.com)
However, the demand for these life-changing dogs continues to grow. PAWS currently receives four applications for every one spot available for SDAs. In 2025, PAWS did not offer applications for this category of assistance dog due to the already extensive waiting list.
For PAWS, meeting this increasing demand requires strategic growth and additional support from the community.
Renovating PAWS’ national headquarters based in Wayland, MI, is one of vital changes being made to expand the mission work and ability to reach more people like the Casula family. The updated facilities will enable PAWS to continue delivering world-class service, increase the number of dogs in training, and therefore, the number applicants the organization can serve.
A need for foster puppy raising volunteers
With a goal to double the placements of assistance dogs by 2030, PAWS also needs to increase the number of volunteers in the Foster Puppy Raising program.
Volunteer Foster Puppy Raisers provide a loving home and basic obedience training for future assistance dogs before they are ready to begin formal training. Before TREASURE met her forever person, Nolan, she lived with Bonnie Sposato, a volunteer Foster Puppy Raiser for PAWS.
There are currently over 150 volunteers that are a part of the Foster Puppy Raising program at PAWS, but this number will need to grow (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
“It honestly gives me goosebumps in the best way to think about the changes and the impact that miss TREASURE is going to have on a child’s life,” said Sposato. “Her new person loves her, and she loves him so much. It is the best feeling ever.”
There are currently over 150 volunteers that are a part of the Foster Puppy Raising program at PAWS, but this number will need to grow over the next year to help serve more people with disabilities. To reach more people like Nolan and his family, PAWS is asking the community to consider becoming a raiser, co-raiser, or a starter/finisher home.
“Providing assistance dogs for the people who need them begins with our volunteers,” said Michele Suchovsky, CEO of PAWS. “By providing the dog with a loving home in the early stages of life, our volunteers are helping us make an incredible impact for people like the Casula family.
“TREASURE helps Nolan feel safe, understood, and supported. She is providing peace of mind to Vanessa and Derek, helping them navigate the challenges of autism with greater ease.”
An encouraging word
(Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Nolan provided his thoughts on the importance of helping more children like him receive their SDA, encouraging people to donate to PAWS and volunteer: “Because of donations from people like you, I have my best friend TREASURE. Your donation will also allow for other kids like me to have a best friend too!”
More information about PAWS, ways to donate, and how to join the volunteer program can be found at: pawswithacause.org.
Puertas Abiertas (Open Doors), a local nonprofit organization, is celebrating six years of helping Latina women live healthier lives free of violence.
Andrea Inostroza, founder and executive director, has served over 2,500 individuals since the inception of Puertas Abiertas in January 2019. While Inostroza focuses on providing services for female victims of abuse, trafficking and discrimination in the Latina community, no one is turned away.
Regardless of age, gender or ethnicity, Inostroza opens her doors to all in need.
“What we provide here is a support group for women, men, children, adolescents, and LGBTQ+ too,” says Inostroza. “This organization was born with the idea of: Serve the Latino community and break the cycle of domestic violence (DV) through education.”
“We speak their language”
Inostroza leads the organization with cultural sensitivity and awareness. As the only bilingual organization in Michigan offering resources for those escaping domestic violence situations, Puertas Abiertas provides a vital service for the Latina community.
The nonprofit offers services such as therapy; support groups; food, clothing and housing assistance; employment and resume building assistance; and a 24/7 Spanish domestic violence hotline.
Puertas Abiertas works with more than 60 partners and community organizations to offer as many resources as possible under one roof – which was Inostroza’s goal.
(Courtesy, Puertas Abiertas)
“My idea was to have an organization where everybody comes here, and we don’t send anyone anywhere,” Inostroza says, adding that partnerships are vital to the success of this process. “You can’t do this work by yourself. You have to do it in a collaboration.”
Inostroza’s staff includes five Michigan licensed therapists and two full-licensed therapists. Inostroza’s background also contains an extensive knowledge of trauma-informed therapy. Puertas Abiertas’ therapy program currently serves over 140 men, women and children.
Puertas Abiertas staff also includes five advocates that accompany clients to various places (ex: court) and assist with transportation and translation.
“We are always with them. Always,” says Inostroza. “That’s what makes a difference. To have somebody beside you, and to know that you belong to the organization…it’s a sense of belonging.”
“We don’t label”
Inostroza says there is no judgment at Puertas Abiertas.
“We don’t differentiate here, we don’t label. If someone comes here and needs services, we help them. Our mission is to provide, to teach these women to have a healthy life free of violence,” Inostroza says.
“We work with the Latino community, and we’re trying to protect the clients, protect the organization, and to have the best outcome based on everything that is going on around us.”
Teaching safety and equality
Andrea Inostroza-Castro, Puertas Abiertas Founder and Executive Director (Courtesy, Puertas Abiertas)
Inostroza was raised in Concepción, Chile and moved to Kansas with her family in 2002 without knowing the English language or culture. The move was precipitated by a desire to place her children in a safe environment and teach them about equality.
“Chile is very divided by social status, socioeconomics and finances, so we wanted to teach our kids that everybody is the same,” says Inostroza. “We don’t look at anyone differently.”
Initially, Inostroza struggled with the English language and change in culture.
“I came from the second biggest city in Chile, beside the ocean – to Kansas, in the middle of nowhere,” said Inostroza, adding that she later moved to Michigan because of the lakes and her desire to be near water.
Inostroza learned English while pursuing a postgraduate degree. Her certifications include: a Bachelor of Arts in Art Education, a Master of Science in Psychology, a Master in Art Therapy and Counseling. She is also registered as a professional artist at Fine Art America.
Recognizing a need
Inostroza was inspired to start Puertas Abiertas while employed at a Grand Rapids school where 86% of students came from the Latino community.
“I saw a lot of problems with children,” says Inostroza. “[The school] wanted to discharge them from the school system because of their behavior.”
Inostroza realized the negative behavior stemmed from domestic violence at home, or because the students were survivors of domestic violence.
(Courtesy, Puertas Abiertas)
She began talking with her students’ mothers, gaining their trust. Inostroza soon realized the women were also DV victims and survivors, or were sexually abused as children.
“That’s what motivates me: the needs of the people and the misunderstanding of the behaviors of the children in school – because it was not their fault,” says Inostroza. “They were repeating [what they saw at home].
Inostroza began a ten-week support group (Puertas Abiertas) for women. As the number of participants quickly increased, she began looking for a larger meeting place – and encountered unexpected resistance.
David vs. Goliath: The fight for resources
While trying to obtain support and resources, Inostroza was continually turned away with the words: ‘No, there is no domestic violence in the Latino community.’
“Grand Rapids wasn’t prepared to face it,” says Inostroza.
Another misconception was the belief that domestic violence was part of the Latino community culture.
“It’s not,” said Inostroza. “It is a lack of formal education. Latino and South American countries are known for lack of formal education.”
Despite the negativity surrounding her, Inostroza refused to give up.
“In the beginning, it was very stressful. I knocked on so many doors. I can’t tell you how many doors.”
Money was also a problem, with only $1,300 for liability insurance. Puertas Abiertas now has a million-dollar budget and 21 staff members.
“It has been a lot of work, a lot of grant writing, a lot of talking,” Inostroza says. “People are supporting the organization and seeing the work being done. We have the trust of the people, but that took work.”
Breaking the cycle
Many children belonging to the Latino community are born into a domestic violence cycle.
“These children are the future generations of the United States,” says Inostroza. “And we don’t see it. We don’t believe that these kids are going to grow up, they are going to become adults, they are going to have families, and the cycle is going to continue.”
Education is necessary, Inostroza continues, to help these children grow, become independent, recognize the difference between need and want – and break the DV cycle.
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs defines which needs are most important to survive (Courtesy, Puertas Abiertas)
“This organization was not based on what I wanted to give the community, it was based on what they needed. That is why it has been so successful,” says Inostroza.
“If we don’t provide the services or the education we’re providing, this is going to continue and continue.”
Wins and losses
Inostroza says she has learned a lot since Puertas Abiertas opened its doors, and that recognizing both wins and losses over the past six years is important.
“It’s important because we learn from our mistakes,” says Inostroza. “We have made some mistakes, and we have learned from them so we don’t repeat them again.”
Inostroza’s staff share the Puertas Abiertas mission, vision and values – and share the rewards as well.
“To know [clients] are going to have a bed at night, a place to sleep, is a huge reward for us,” said Inostroza. “To know they are going to have food, to know they are safe, to see their smile, is what has motivated me to keep going. Nothing else.”
And Inostroza is willing to put in the work.
“We have to do the work…and do the best we can to protect the clients and protect the organization. I cannot fail.”
To learn more about Puertas Abiertas or how to support/partner with the organization, click here (English) or here (Español).
Watch this special episode of WKTV Soundbites En Español with host Yeli Romero and Julieta Torres, Gerente de Programas de Puertas Abiertas: Soundbites En Español.
Local teens, community leaders and experts will convene to discuss the toughest challenges youth currently face and offer insight into how best to provide support (Courtesy, WCS)
Local teens, community leaders and experts will convene on Monday, March 10 for the Wedgwood Christian Services (WCS) annual State of the Child (SOTC) conference to discuss the toughest challenges youth currently face.
Held at Frederik Meijer Gardens from 8:30 a.m.-4 p.m., SOTC provides an opportunity to talk about these challenges and offer insight into how best to provide support.
What to expect
Led by a team of local teenagers in collaboration with a panel of community experts, SOTC will feature a panel discussion with local experts in various fields, a keynote speaker, breakout sessions and – most importantly – insights from teens themselves.
SOTC resonates with families and caregivers of youth due to the direct involvement of local youth (Courtesy, WCS)
Brina Tiemeyer, WCS Director of Clinical services, says SOTC resonates with families and caregivers of youth due to the direct involvement of local youth.
“We have a panel of experts that sit on the stage, but all of the information that we’re talking about is brought to us from teens,” Tiemeyer told WKTV. “We hear directly from their mouths what they’re facing, what their opinions are on how they’re experiencing it, and then we have the experts’ response.”
Featured keynote speaker Dr. Angela Pharris, PhD MSW, will address the Science of Hope. Pharris’ research centers on child welfare and human service organizations, applying a hope-centered and trauma-informed framework.
Dr. Angela Pharris (Courtesy, WCS)
The breakout session topics are directly driven by local teens each year. WCS partner Maranda with WOOD TV8 regularly ventures out onto the streets to engage youth in conversation.
“Local kids from all walks of life have the opportunity to talk, to say what they are experiencing or what they see their peers experiencing,” said Brooke Jevicks, WCS VP of Advancement.
In preparation for the breakout sessions, WCS also formed a committee that leans into several industries. Leaders in state government, educators, therapists and social workers, healthcare leaders, nonprofit leaders and representatives from the court system are all involved in the planning process.
The goal is to provide tangible takeaways for all types of caregivers for children.
“We try to make sure as many industries as possible that work or influence a child’s life have a voice in this event,” said Jevicks. “One of Wedgwood’s core values is diversity and inclusivity. It’s really important to us to make sure that we’re getting voices from all over the community to speak into what we are hearing and seeing so we know what would be most helpful to families, or anybody that’s working with children.”
Positivity produces resiliency
SOTC’s overarching theme that “the state of the child is up to you” led Wedgwood to lean into The Power of One concept for the 2025 conference.
(Courtesy, WCS)
“The science of hope ties into that because there’s data that shows if a kid has just one positive adult in their life, they have a huge opportunity to have a different trajectory than what other kids might,” said Jevicks. “Being that for a kid gives that kid hope, and that’s what will change their whole brain chemistry.”
Tiemeyer agreed: “All mental health and evidence based practice says that the number one resiliency factor to recovering from trauma is having one positive caregiver who makes a child feel that they are safe, lovable and capable.”
Because of this, Tiemeyer emphasizes that SOTC is not just for those serving youth in a professional capacity.
“This conference is for anyone that interacts or even cares for children,” said Tiemeyer. “Our audience is everyone. If you care about children, you should be there. If you have a heart for children, come to State of the Child; everyone is welcome.”
Safety and empowerment in community
For the past 65 years, WCS has been a leader in identifying the need to care for the whole family in order to care for the child, and has remained committed to the mental, emotional and behavioral well-being of both youth and families.
SOTC guests will walk away with resources and a community of support (Courtesy, WCS)
“We are increasing awareness, educating the community, so that people can be empowered to know how to be a good advocate, how to empower our kids to advocate for themselves,” said Jevicks, adding that it is important to know it is okay to ask for help – and that it is okay to not be okay.
“Life is hard,” Jevicks said. “We are born into a broken world, and life is really difficult, and our kids are struggling. Learning more and being empowered helps you empower others.”
Jevicks admitted that the SOTC conference is one of her favorite annual Grand Rapids events.
“It is so thoughtful, it is so intentional, it is so impactful,” said Jevicks, adding that SOTC creates a safe community. “Nobody at State of the Child is judging somebody for what they, or their kids, are going through. It’s a place where everybody can feel heard and seen and valued, and a safe place to talk about it.”
Knowledge, empowerment and community
Knowledge is power – and that is what you will receive at SOTC.
“There is no way you can leave that event without walking away with new information, feeling like you have more tools in your tool belt, feeling like you’re not alone, that there’s a community to go to and be a part of in these hard conversations,” said Jevicks.
(Courtesy, WCS)
Each SOTC guest will receive several tip sheets on a variety of subjects, including how to build resilience, when to know to ask for therapy, stress management and more.
“Wedgwood really wants to be a partner in your life because we know where families and kids are,” said Jevicks. “We want you to thrive at home; that’s what we’re here for.”
SOTC, Tiemeyer said, is the first step to building that community that walks alongside families. “Our goal is to always be alongside them and to empower them to be as successful as they are capable of being.”
Helpful Links
Register for Wedgwood’s 2025 State of the Child conference here.
To learn more about the comprehensive services WCS offers, click here.
The 15th annual LaughFest Festival will offer 45 free and ticketed shows with venues in Grand Rapids, Lowell and Gun Lake Casino and Resort in Wayland (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
With Gilda’s LaughFest less than a month away, Gilda’s Club Grand Rapids announced the 15th annual event will offer 45 free and ticketed shows with venues in Grand Rapids, Lowell and Gun Lake Casino and Resort in Wayland.
Included in the free events are a new LaughFest kickoff event, several LaughFest favorites, and a variety of family-friendly shows.
There is something funny for everyone at LaughFest (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
“LaughFest is very much a festival where there really is something funny for everyone,” said Wendy Wigger, President and CEO of Gilda’s Club Grand Rapids. “Now in our 15th year, we’re excited to bring some great free shows, as well as events that families can enjoy and join in the laughter together.”
What is LaughFest?
Laughter is celebrated at LaughFest (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
Launched in March 2011, Gilda’s LaughFest is the nation’s first-ever community-wide festival of laughter. The festival has quickly earned a reputation for being one of the nation’s marquee events for both participants and artists.
Based in Grand Rapids and including events throughout West Michigan, LaughFest celebrates and honors laughter as an essential part of emotional health and wellbeing.
Featuring stand-up, improv, showcases and more, LaughFest brings together a diverse audience of children and adults every March.
NEWLaughFest kickoff event:
Kicking off LaughFest is a new free event, Celebrity Clue Scavenger, on Feb. 26. The scavenger hunt will feature six teams comprised of 4-6 clever sleuths, embarking on a quest to decipher cryptic clues.
Handed out by local media celebrities, comedians Matt Lauria and Allen Trieu, and local celebrity chef Tommy FitzGerald, the clues will lead teams to six unique locations within a one-mile radius throughout downtown Grand Rapids.
Family Improv brings lots of laughs (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
Free LaughFest shows:
March 5 @ Midtown – The Cancer Survivor Showcase: Local comedians who have all experienced cancer share their stories – with a twist.
March 6 @ Midtown – We Are SO Lucky: Allen Trieu’s hybrid stand-up and stage show features his personal journey of heartbreak, love, healing and self-discovery during an unexpected divorce.
A VR Showcase participant engages on stage while audience members watch the simulcast (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
March 8 @ The B.O.B. – The Virtual Reality Showcase: See comedians live on stage through VR simulcasted to TV screens in Dr. Grins. VR headsets are not required to view the live performance and will not be provided.
March 9 @ Spectrum Entertainment Complex – Sunday Night Funnies: Features up-and-coming talent and a 50/50 raffle with all proceeds going to Gilda’s Club of GR.
Free family-friendly LaughFest shows:
Youth enjoy sharing their jokes on stage (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
NEW! March 6 @ Resurrection Fellowship Church – Gospel Fest: Hosted by the Gilda’s Club Grand Rapids Sister-to-Sister Breast Cancer Support Group for Women of Color, the event consists of laughter, praise, and shared song with clean comedian Lena Green.
March 8 @ Gilda’s Club GR – Kids Joke Time: Young comedians from West Michigan have submitted their favorite jokes and will take the mic. Comedian Allen Trieu will host.
March 8 @ Gilda’s Club GR – Family Improv: Families get silly playing improvised games while finding new ways to use their imaginations on a rainy day. Led by local improv instructors at The Comedy Project. No improv experience required.
March 5 @ LowellArts! and March 8 @ Gilda’s Club GR – Drums for All with Josh Dunigan: This event is the product of conversations and collaborations Dunigan had with those living with various disabilities. Dunigan provides the drums, participants bring hands and smiles.
All ages enjoy Josh Dunigan’s Drums for All program (Courtesy, Gilda’s Club GR)
Event info / Ticket purchases
The full lineup of free events, as well as ticket information, can be found at laughfestgr.org.
Dinner and show tickets for the Red Door Gala featuring Preacher Lawson are available at gildasclubgr.org/red-door-gala.
TRIGGER WARNING: This article contains sensitive information about violence and rape that may be distressing or traumatic for some individuals.
Liz Midkiff, human trafficking survivor and ambassador for Women at Risk, International (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
WAR Ambassador and human trafficking survivor Liz Midkiff has spent half a decade educating youth and adults on the hard truths – and misconceptions – of human trafficking.
“A lot of people want to fight trafficking, but they don’t know how because information is so vague,” says Midkiff.
Midkiff’s own journey began at 15-years-old when she went on a mission trip to Thailand. Part of that trip involved visiting the red light district and understanding what human trafficking truly meant. Midkiff left Thailand believing God had called her to fight against trafficking.
However, three years later, Midkiff found herself a victim of sex trafficking – and it looked nothing like what she had seen in Thailand.
“People are just given vague information. They have no idea – what does it actually look like in America?”
Kidnapping vs. Grooming
In America, 3% of trafficking victims are kidnapped, but 90-95% are groomed by someone the victim knows. WAR S.T.A.N.D. classes, formulated by Midkiff and WAR founder Rebecca McDonald, focus on both aspects.
Liz Midkiff with her two sons. Due to the physical damage inflicted during her time of captivity, she believed she would never be able to have children. (Courtesy, Midkiff)
“In the classes…we talk about what is safe. What does safe feel like, what does safe look like?
“We talk about stranger danger, but we also talk about danger with people we know. What happens when family and friends are not safe? You’ve got to give the kids options, but you also have to give them what is safe and what’s not safe.”
According to the Children’s Advocacy Project, grooming is defined as “when someone builds a relationship, trust and emotional connection with a child or young person so they can manipulate, exploit and abuse them.”
Grooming is a deliberate process and can take place over minutes, weeks or years, and can happen in person and online. Many groomers also build relationships with family and friends of their target so they appear trustworthy or authoritative.
Midkiff says this is confusing to adults and is often asked to explain what grooming looks like.
“A lot of people have a lot of basic knowledge of what trafficking is, but they don’t know what it looks like or what to even do if they see it,” said Midkiff. “That’s where I feel I can help.”
Taking a S.T.A.N.D.
“I created the S.T.A.N.D. classes because that was something that was really important to me as a mom [and] because I can teach them real-life experience.”
(Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
Midkiff’s S.T.A.N.D. classes begin at 5-years-old because kids understand the concepts of safety and right vs. wrong. However, Midkiff has noticed that many parents avoid talking to their children about trafficking because they believe it will scare them.
“I think adults are more scared than the kids are,” said Midkiff.
Knowledge and preparation help combat that fear.
Prevention: Discretion
Social media discretion – such as abstaining from posting naked pictures of children, or where they go to school – is a preventative measure that can be taken immediately after birth.
Another discretionary action that Midkiff personally implements is having children wear full clothing when in public.
Prevention: Knowledge
Liz Midkiff with her oldest son (Courtesy, Midkiff)
While at a playground with her 5-year-old son, a man sat down and began talking to Midkiff. She had noticed him around the playground and assumed he worked there. He did not.
At one point, the man lifted his shirt, without Midkiff’s consent, to show off his tattoos. Midkiff’s son noticed and ran over, inserting himself between the two adults and refusing to leave, stating it was not safe for his mother.
“He’s five,” said Midkiff. “He was not scared. He was empowered, and he knew exactly what to do. He knew the signs, and he knew what that looked like…because of the class he took one time.”
Midkiff believes educating children when they are young is an excellent form of prevention. Numerous women have approached Midkiff saying, I’ve lived with being molested as a child for 60 years because I didn’t know that didn’t happen to everybody else. I didn’t know what to do.
“If we can get the kids when they’re kids, they don’t have to wait till they’re 60 to have the realization there was something they could have done,” said Midkiff.
Prevention: Recognition
Not only will children be able to help themselves, they will be able to recognize signs of grooming and/or trafficking of others around them.
“If [my son is] doing this stuff at five, when he’s [older] he’s going to know if his 15-year-old friend has a bad boyfriend or a trafficker,” said Midkiff. “And he’s going to know what to do.
Knowing the difference is important, because those situations can look very similar. Midkiff cites sextortion as an example.
Fraud and coercion
While sending naked pictures of yourself to someone you are in a relationship with is not smart, it is not illegal. However, if that relationship ends and the other person sells those pictures to friends, or uses those pictures against you – threatening to show them to others unless you do certain things – it creates a completely different situation.
“Now he’s manipulating you, he’s coercing you,” said Midkiff, adding that it’s confusing to many people because the entire situation began as a consensual relationship. “When I do my class, I talk about force fraud and coercion; that is what makes something trafficking.”
Kids grooming kids
Rebecca McDonald (left), thanks Midkiff’s five-year-old son for raising $300 to provide one month in a safehouse for a trafficking survivor (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
Midkiff’s five-year-old son was recently groomed at a mall by another boy.
The 12-year-old boy approached Midkiff’s son and repeatedly asked if he wanted to come outside to the playground. Despite moving to other areas of the store, the boy persisted, even inserting himself between Midkiff and her son.
“He was trying to separate me from my son,” said Midkiff. “He was grooming him: ‘I like your car, do you like to play on the playground?’ It was innocent kid talk, but did it make sense? No, it didn’t. He didn’t have his mother [with him], and young boys don’t follow other women to the underwear department.”
As Midkiff left with her son, she noticed two older men waiting for that 12-year-old boy at the front doors.
If Midkiff had not been paying attention, she may not have noticed the boy’s grooming tactics. And her young son might have gone with him.
“That’s how it happens,” said Midkiff. “It’s not just snatching them from the store. You can lure him anywhere with a toy. Those are things to look for. And those are the kind of situations I teach.”
Prevention: Be observant, ask questions
Many victims want to ask for help but are afraid of putting someone else in danger (Courtesy photo)
Midkiff says simply being observant can prevent trafficking.
Despite going to a doctor several times while being trafficked, not one nurse or doctor questioned her about obvious evidence of violence.
One friend commented on bruises on Midkiff’s arms. Midkiff sarcastically said that she fell down the stairs – while desperately hoping the girl would ask more questions, offer a place to stay or a phone number to call if Midkiff needed anything.
“She knew there was something else there, and she chose not to ask more questions because she thought I was being standoffish. Why was I being standoffish? Because I didn’t want to put her in danger.”
Many people, however, don’t even know what to look for.
“People say, look for someone who looks malnourished. Well, 70% of the people you see might look malnourished. Maybe their parents don’t feed them, or they have an eating disorder, or they’re struggling artists.”
Midkiff has developed a three-strike rule.
Simply being observant could save someone’s life (Courtesy photo)
“If three things look out of place then I will make the call to the human trafficking hotline number,” said Midkiff, citing an instance when she saw a woman enter an urgent care with a girl who bore a barcode tattoo on the back of her neck.
That tattoo was an automatic red flag for Midkiff. And since 60% of traffickers are women, there was no guarantee the woman was the girl’s mother.
That was enough for Midkiff; she called WAR.
“There were 20 people in that urgent care. Do you think anybody else thought of that? I doubt it. Because nobody even knew that’s what to look for. To me, it was literally sitting right in front of me.”
Traffickers move victims around often to confuse them and prevent them from being able to tell anyone where they are. If someone doesn’t know where they are going or where they are coming from, it is a red flag.
“Even my five-year-old knows where he lives. But some of these girls, they’re being transported every six days, and possibly to different states.”
Comply vs. Consent
To freeze is a normal response to trauma and does not mean the victim did something wrong (Courtesy photo)
Midkiff also teaches the difference between comply and consent.
Teaching a child to say no is important. However, our bodies have at least three different responses to trauma: fight, flight and freeze.
If a child does not say no when faced with a traumatic situation, it is not because they did something wrong, it is because their body shut down – which is a normal reaction, said WAR founder Rebecca McDonald.
“To freeze is a normal, actually healthy, response to trauma. You’re trying to be quiet and not bring attention to yourself.”
That does not, McDonald continued, mean you were consenting.
“We’re taught to comply. Not consent, but to comply,” said McDonald. “Trafficking survivors have complied a lot. It just means that they did what it took to stay alive and survive.”
Set aside fear
Midkiff urges parents to set aside uncertainty regarding conversation about trafficking – before it’s too late.
“Trafficking is happening.”
*Read Liz Midkiff’s full survivor story in WKTV’s Voices of Freedom series.
Resources
Women at Risk, International (WAR, Int’l) is knowledgable and has access to resources such as Homeland Security and the FBI. WAR also provides wraparound services which provide survivors with additional needed help and life skills.
– If you or someone you know is a victim of human trafficking, contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline. It is a free, 24/7 service that offers confidential and multilingual support, information and local resources for victims, survivors, and witnesses of human trafficking.
No matter the cost: Liz Midkiff risked everything to find freedom – and her voice
Human trafficking survivor and WAR, Int’l Ambassador Liz Midkiff is determined to keep others from experiencing the horrors she endured (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
TRIGGER WARNING: This article contains sensitive information about violence and rape that may be distressing or traumatic for some individuals.
Liz Midkiff was trafficked for two years before she found a way out. Held captive physically and emotionally, Midkiff finally had enough.
“I finally got out of it by running into the woods,” said Midkiff. “I think I just lost my mind. At one point I’m like, they can kill us all. I’m going to call my dad.”
Midkiff called her father at 4 a.m. and asked him to come get her – immediately. “He didn’t ask any questions. He got me and took me home. They lived four hours away.”
Midkiff was willing to risk everything to regain her freedom (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Midkiff and her father didn’t talk during the car ride home. In fact, he did not know what he had rescued his daughter from until years later. He simply knew his daughter called, she was frantic, and he needed to go get her.
Though Midkiff received threatening phone calls after she escaped, her traffickers did not want to cross state lines, so she was not in physical danger.
Midkiff stayed with her parents as she began the healing process, describing her parents’ home as her safe house.
“Even if you get somebody out of [trafficking], you’ve got to get them to a place that’s safe or they’re never going to heal,” said Midkiff, adding that many victims do not have a safe place to go to. “I feel really blessed that I had parents that were able to help me.”
Finding hope and purpose
Midkiff’s healing process was long and difficult, mentally and physically.
“I had to have multiple surgeries because people did some ungodly things,” said Midkiff.
Midkiff’s attempts to facilitate healing were not easy – but she did not give up (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
The mental and emotional side of healing was difficult for many reasons.
“It wasn’t easy because I didn’t even know I was trafficked until years later,” Midkiff admitted, adding that she was continually told she simply had “bad boyfriends” and that her experiences happen to everyone. “I didn’t know there was an actual name for it.”
It wasn’t until she heard trafficking talked about on television that Midkiff realized: This is what happened to me.
Armed with that knowledge, Midkiff attempted to facilitate healing by talking with various therapists, but did not find it helpful.
“Most therapists have no idea what trafficking is,” said Midkiff. “They have no idea how to speak to a survivor.”
Midkiff found herself struggling with deep-seated anger as she sought meaning in what happened to her. “I just wanted to have meaning to what happened. I wanted to make sense of it, and I wanted purpose in my life.”
Eventually, Midkiff found a Christian counselor who asked where her journey first began. Midkiff explained about her mission trip to Thailand and the call she felt from God to fight trafficking. The counselor then asked Midkiff: “Do you think it’s a possibility that Satan heard that goal too, and he wanted to try to bring you down because you have something so powerful to say?”
Midkiff felt like a switch had been flipped.
“When I felt like I had a call on my life, I feel like that was from God. Three years later, I just happened to be trafficked myself.
Midkiff refused to let guilt and anger rule her life (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
“I feel that Satan tried to bring me down with the one thing I was supposed to fight. That there is something that I have to say that is so powerful, he just wanted to destroy it.”
For years, Midkiff did keep silent. “I didn’t want to talk about it. If I can’t even protect myself, how can I help other people?”
As Midkiff struggled with survivor’s guilt over escaping the trafficking business while others remained victims, Midkiff’s husband echoed the suggestion that Midkiff might have something to say.
“Maybe you have something that needs to be said, and so you need to use that to fight it,” Midkiff’s husband told her. “Instead of in anger, fight it by helping other people.”
Midkiff began seeing other survivors lead programs and meetings and was intrigued.
“Hearing from other survivors, how powerful their story is and how they can help others with what they went through, I thought, I have that. There are so many things that could be said about what happened to me.”
A lifelong journey of healing
Aspects of her physical trauma remain with Midkiff even now – and she refuses to be silenced about those experiences.
“To this day, I don’t sleep in a bed,” said Midkiff. “And if I do, I don’t sleep.
“I’ve been out of this for 15 years now, but to this day, I will wake up so tense I won’t be able to move, or I’ll have nightmares the whole night. I either sleep in a chair, or I sleep on the floor.”
Midkiff’s husband Roger (right) patiently won her trust and love (Courtesy, Midkiff)
When she married her husband, Roger slept on a couch and Midkiff slept on the floor.
“Eventually he just slept on the floor with me. He’s a big guy, so it shows his love, to be able to come down to my level.”
The fact that Midkiff was able to trust someone enough to marry was a monumental hurdle in its own right – and it took time.
“We would just hang out, [and] he became my best friend. He was different from every guy I’ve ever met.”
But even friendship didn’t come easily for Midkiff.
“I didn’t have friends. It’s still hard for me to make friends. I didn’t trust anybody. It was just me and my dog. I was very much a loner, and my husband very much pursued me, but in a friendship sort of way.”
When Midkiff’s dog died, Roger was there to support her.
“My dog had been through all of that with me. When he died, it was like my life was falling apart. But then Roger would just be there, just hang out with me as a normal person. He was never forceful, he was never weird.
“And I realized this is how people are supposed to be. I think that helped me be able to laugh again and be able to have fun.”
When Roger said he wanted to date Midkiff, she revealed everything in her past, fully expecting him to walk away.
It took time for Midkiff to trust that not all relationships are transactional (Courtesy, Midkiff)
“He didn’t leave,” said Midkiff. “He hugged me and said, ‘None of this was ever your fault.’ That was a turning point.”
But obstacles remained.
Because Midkiff’s experiences with men were entirely transactional, certain aspects of her relationship with Roger were difficult. When Roger took her hand or bought her flowers, Midkiff was instantly transported back to her past and became angry, asking what he wanted from her.
“During dating – and even marriage – there was a lot of ironing out of those things,” said Midkiff.
A large part of her healing came from turning back to her Christian faith.
“When [the trafficking] was actually happening, I would say I turned away from it, especially when the church rejected me,” said Midkiff. “That was my final straw. I had a nice little showdown with God in the car, actually. I still believed in Him, but didn’t want anything to do with Him.”
However, Midkiff could see God at work through specific instances where she was shielded from harm by people who said God sent them to protect her.
As Midkiff tried to make sense of why she went through being trafficked, she found purpose in her faith – and found her voice.
Taking a S.T.A.N.D
Midkiff says every step she takes toward speaking out has solidified her belief that God has called her to fight human trafficking.
Liz Midkiff, human trafficking survivor and WAR, Int’l Ambassador (right) with Rebecca McDonald, Founder and Executive Director of WAR, Int’l (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
“Things are happening,” said Midkiff. “The S.T.A.N.D class, different situations I’ve had talking to people, and seeing people freed from shame they felt. People only I would have been able to talk to.
“If you talk to another survivor, it means something different because they understand. I think it’s helped me a lot with my anger and guilt.”
Midkiff began speaking at public events – and happened to share her story at a Women At Risk, International CFR event where founder Rebecca McDonald was in attendance. The next day, McDonald invited Midkiff to speak at more WAR events.
Midkiff has worked with the nonprofit for the past five years, finding she fits well into the role of speaker. And Midkiff’s voice is having a powerful effect.
“Working with WAR, I can speak for survivors, and I can help them.”
Knowledge and preparation are vital
For the past five years, Midkiff has been sharing her story to help others recognize and prevent human trafficking. However, she only shared her story at WAR events. In April 2023, Midkiff took a leap of faith and shared her story on Facebook for the first time.
Midkiff uses her personal knowledge and everything she has learned to protect others (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
But she wants to do more.
Knowledge and recognition of what human trafficking truly consists of is vital in preventing trafficking. However, even if Midkiff had been prepared, she knew her trafficker for six months, and he seemed trustworthy. How could she have known she was entering a dangerous situation?
What would have made a difference, Midkiff said, was having knowledge of how to get out of that situation. “It’s not just how to prevent it but, if this happens to you or your friends, what can you do?”
Knowledge of what trafficking actually looks like is also important.
Midkiff observed that people have a basic knowledge of what trafficking is, but don’t know what it looks like or what to do if they see it. And most people don’t know what grooming means in the trafficking world.
“That’s where I feel I can help,” said Midkiff. “And WAR is such a big help to people because every trafficking case is different and we have the resources, we have the knowledge to back it up. We have Homeland Security, we have the FBI, we have all these things that maybe the everyday person doesn’t have.”
An ambassador for truth
Midkiff works to educate both children and adults about trafficking (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
As an ambassador for WAR, Midkiff’s ministry is funded through the generosity of supporters. Her passion for protecting children from trafficking keeps her continually seeking ministry opportunities.
“I created the S.T.A.N.D. classes because that was something that was really important to me as a mom.”
S.T.A.N.D. classes are available for children as young as 5-years-old and contain age appropriate material regarding safe relationships, stranger danger, private parts and personal privacy. Teen classes may include content about drugs, money, phones and social media.
However, Midkiff has noticed many parents avoid talking to their children about trafficking because they believe it will scare them.
Midkiff has already begun teaching her oldest son (left) about appropriate interactions and relationships (Courtesy, Midkiff)
“I think adults are more scared than the kids are,” said Midkiff, adding that even if they do talk to their kids, there are things parents would not know about.
“What I do is so new, and such a hard topic, that people are a little apprehensive about having me come out. So [I’m] just trying to be bold, stepping out and fighting for kids now because the media is certainly fighting to get your kids right now. Trafficking is happening.”
While Midkiff may never fully make sense of what happened to her, “I’ve come to the peace of: it happened. For whatever reason it happened, I have something to say that needs to be said. And that drives me to seek out these opportunities.”
*Continue reading Liz Midkiff’s survivor story and misconceptions about human trafficking in part four of her Voices of Freedom series, coming to WKTV Journal on Jan. 27, 2025.
Take a S.T.A.N.D.
Liz Midkiff, human trafficking survivor and WAR, Int’l ambassador will lead the S.T.A.N.D. classes (Courtesy, WAR, Int’l)
WAR, Int’l is hosting two S.T.A.N.D. classes on Jan. 25 at the WAR Chest Boutique in Wyoming.
Created and designed by Liz Midkiff and Rebecca McDonald, these classes are teach safety awareness, trafficking signs, age appropriate communications/actions, and more.
– The KidsS.T.A.N.D. Session will be held from 11 a.m. – 12 p.m. for children ages 5-10 years old.
– The Teen S.T.A.N.D. Session will be held from 12:30 – 2 p.m. for youth ages 11-17 years old.
More details and registration information can be found here.
Resources
*In an emergency, call 911.
– If you or someone you know is a victim of human trafficking, contact the National Human Trafficking Hotline. It is a free, 24/7 service that offers confidential and multilingual support, information and local resources for victims, survivors, and witnesses of human trafficking.
Following the screening will be conversation with trafficking survivor Leslie King, Founder and President of Sacred Beginnings, and Marie Brown, House Supervisor at the WCS Manasseh Project residential home, on the realities of human trafficking.
A huge disconnect
“Wedgwood started ourManasseh Project early in the 2010s and has continued to make sure that our community is bringing awareness around the issue of sex trafficking,” said Kori Thompson, WCS Advancement and Development Community Officer.
Thompson went on to say that the Manasseh Project was founded due to severe misconceptions regarding human trafficking.
(Courtesy, WCS)
“What we saw was this huge disconnect of people in our community not understanding that this was happening here – especially to young children – and yet having a residential home of victims of human trafficking,” said Thompson. “Over 10 years later, we are still finding that misconception.
“This is very real. This is real in our community, these are things that young people face. How can we, as a community, protect our children, protect these women, who are really victims in these scenarios.”
The “Film & Freedom: A Documentary & Discussion on Human Trafficking” event is a way to provide the community with resources and educate individuals on trafficking warning signs.
The screening of Nameless, an educational documentary, will reveal harsh realities surrounding human trafficking and how it begins.
“It’s really a survivor’s perspective,” said Thompson. “How they would be brought into that lifestyle, what happens, and some of the statistics around sex trafficking.”
A wealth of experience
Speakers Leslie King and Marie Brown will be bringing a wealth of personal and professional experience to the screening and discussion.
A survivor of human trafficking, King founded the nonprofit organization Sacred Beginnings in 2005 to provide residential housing to victims of human trafficking and resources for support and recovery to those exiting the trafficking lifestyle.
(Courtesy photo)
“[King] does an incredible job through her program,” said Thompson. “She has been an amazing activist in the community for a very long time.”
The partnership between Sacred Beginnings and WCS has given King the ability to offer a therapeutic element by providing a WCS therapist who works closely with King’s recovery program.
The Manasseh Project provides community and professional education, collaboration advocacy and treatment to individuals who have experienced sexual and commercial exploitation. Brown has served as house supervisor at the Manasseh Project residential home for over 20 years and oversees all residential home programming.
Perception and knowledge
Millions are victims of trafficking, and many of those victims are children (Courtesy, WCS)
“Film & Freedom” will be held at Wealthy Theatre in Grand Rapids.
The doors will open at 5:30 p.m. with the documentary screening beginning at 6 p.m. Interviews and discussion will begin at 7:15 p.m. with an opportunity for attendees to ask questions beginning at 8:15 p.m.
Free ticket and event registration can be found here.
Thompson said she hopes “Film & Freedom” attendees walk away with two things: a change in perspective and an awareness of the importance of educating oneself about human trafficking and sexual exploitation.
“I hope it changes their perspective of what would bring someone into this situation and how we, as a society, can best help them,” said Thompson. “I think we hold a lot of assumptions and preconceived ideas and, quite frankly, judgment. Judging someone in this situation is not going to be the best way to help them.
“By changing your perspective on what this looks like, you can hopefully change the narrative and offer healing to victims. Because that’s what they are – victims and survivors.”
In regard to education, Thompson believes that “when you know better, you can educate others.”
“Ultimately, when we can educate our community on these vital signs of what is happening in our community, they can call it out,” said Thompson. “Then we are all advocates working together for the goal of stopping human sex trafficking.”
A unique twist
Building face-to-face connections can help individuals know where to go if they need help (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
The “Film & Freedom” event is unique in that WCS will be bringing in several community organizations in addition to Sacred Beginnings.
Safe Haven Ministries and Silent Observer will be featured at the event. Local boutique, Crowned Free, will also be in attendance with items available for purchase. A percentage of the Crowned Free profit is given back to support victims of human trafficking.
“All of these [organizations/resources] are a way to not only educate our community, but also show our community that these are the resources we have available,” said Thompson. “If something happens, these are the people on the front lines doing the work.
“We want to make sure we’re having that face-to-face connection with these other amazing organizations as well because it truly takes everyone to do this type of work.”
Holiday celebrations can lead to tough conversations about the decline in mental and physical health of elderly parents or grandparents (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
The elderly may be resistant to hearing concerns about their health (Courtesy, Adobe Stock)
Various changes take place as we age, many of them unwanted.
“Things happen to you [during aging], and they don’t happen on your terms,” says Rev. Howard C. Earle Jr., Chaplain and Director of Spiritual Care for Beacon Hill at Eastgate. “As we age, things start to happen – whether we want them to or not.”
For some, holiday celebrations are a time when family members measure the decline in mental and physical health of elderly parents or grandparents. That decline often leads to tough conversations such as: “Dad, it’s time to stop driving – for your safety and others” or “Mom, we don’t need you to host Christmas this year – come to dinner at our house and just enjoy.”
Though these well-intentioned conversations come from a place of caring, Earle says the elderly often do not hear it that way.
Nobody asked me…
Whether our bodies begin to break down and fail, our life partner dies, we slip and fall, or we simply can’t care for ourselves any longer, these changes are out of our control and often frustrating because they can mean having our independence abruptly taken away.
“There was no real outlet where there could be some real transparency and sense of community to process what [the elderly] feel,” says Earle.
Seeing the need for such an outlet, Earle began an ongoing weekly discussion series titled “Nobody Asked Me.”
Nobody Asked Me creates a safe space for Beacon Hill residents to share honestly with each other (Courtesy, iStock)
“We created this space where we could be totally honest about what we feel as we enter into these phases and seasons of life,” says Earle.
For the past two years, Earle has led various discussions on aging each Tuesday morning at 9:30 a.m. Residents talk through their feelings about changes that happen with aging, and feature topics such as health, grief, technology, activities…and holidays.
As we enter the holiday season, Earle is also conducting a special holiday series called Hope for the Holidays. “It’s the same concept,” says Earle. “It’s about processing what they feel regarding anything concerning life.”
Earle leads the discussion with “Nobody asked me…” and then follows it up with an issue such as “…if I wanted to give up my keys.” The discussion then revolves around all things connected to that experience.
A resonating resource
(Courtesy, iStock)
Earle says the weekly discussions are one piece of Beacon Hill programming that has resonated with all residents and become a valuable resource.
Though Earle is a chaplain, he says Nobody Asked Me discussions are not faith-based, intentionally generating conversation from a life perspective.
“It doesn’t matter what your religion is, you get old,” says Earle. “Everybody gets old, and everybody feels some kind of way about getting old.”
Think before speaking
When asked what advice he would give to younger generations as they prepare for family celebrations, Earle says to be patient, intentional and considerate.
“Senior adults need to know that they still matter,” says Earle. “Be intentionally affirming but also be sensitive.”
Earle cautions against generalizing the elderly by labeling them mean or grumpy. Instead, be mindful of what it might feel like to not see or hear well, making it difficult to feel part of the surrounding conversations and festivities.
“Be as thoughtful as you can…and try to be open to what some of these realities are.”
Earle encourages residents to live life on their own terms by taking full advantage of all opportunities (Courtesy, Joanne Bailey-Boorsma)
Live life on your terms
Each week, Earle reminds residents that they are alive – and encourages them to live life on their own terms by taking advantage of opportunities such as exploring, investing in new relationships and learning new things.
“Rather than thinking of senior living as waiting until you die, think of it as living until you do,” says Earle. “You get to decide what living will look like.
“Living is going to look different for every person, but some things are going to be fundamental: remain relational, stay engaged, don’t isolate, don’t withdraw, have fun, laugh, learn. Those are things that I believe enrich life and make life worth living.”
Local author Tanisha Franklin lives a life of faith – and is sharing her journey of faith and other life lessons through her book, God Changed My Story (GCMS).
“This is the story of my life, and I hope this will help someone learn that what they are going through is only for a season,” Franklin states in the introduction to God Changed My Story.
A call of change
Author Tanisha Franklin has set out on a journey of faith (Courtesy, Tanisha Franklin)
Born and raised in Grand Rapids, Franklin worked full-time jobs outside her home until 2020. In 2019, Franklin felt God calling her to quit her job and write her memoir. Though Franklin thought about writing a book for 20 years, she admitted she never had the courage to put pen to paper.
Franklin was nervous about not bringing in a steady income while juggling a mortgage and family expenses.
“It was difficult because I’ve never not worked,” said Franklin. “It wasn’t that I didn’t trust that my husband would take care of me, but I’ve always had my own income.”
Though she continued to feel God nudging her down a new path, Franklin stalled.
“I just kept beating around the bush,” said Franklin. “Then finally [God] gave me the specific date and said, ‘If you don’t quit your job by January 31, 2020, all these doors I have opened for you, I’m going to close, because you’re not trusting me.
“I decided to quit in 2020 to pursue writing my book.”
Little did she know her world was about to come crashing down.
A journey of heartbreak
On Oct. 28, 2020, Franklin’s 17-year-old son attempted to take his own life.
“I was just devastated,” said Franklin. “I didn’t know what to do, didn’t know where to turn.”
But Franklin was determined to get her son help. However, doctors prescribed anxiety medication without finding the true source of her son’s depression, and her son refused therapy.
During this time, Franklin found out her son had tried to end his life multiple times before.
Franklin was determined to help her son despite multiple medical roadblocks and shocking revelations (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
“He tried at 12, he tried multiple times at 15, and at this point he was 17 and tried multiple times,” said Franklin.
What followed was a heartbreaking journey of doctors and therapists, medication failures, a misdiagnosis, insurance concerns, additional suicide attempts – and the revelation that her son suffered abuse from his father at age 12.
Franklin was shocked. Though her relationship with her son’s father was abusive, she never thought he would abuse their son.
Desperate to find help, Franklin emailed yet another therapist. Before she could walk away from her computer, her phone rang. It was the therapist.
“I know it couldn’t be anybody but God,” said Franklin. “My son still sees him.”
Hitting rock bottom
Emotionally drained and fighting anxiety, Franklin began drinking wine after her children went to bed.
Franklin was unemployed and had pulled her 401K to pay their mortgage. Her husband was employed, but they were on a set budget. It felt, Franklin said, like everything was crashing down.
A medical emergency brought on by a mixture of wine, marijuana and her type 1 diabetes landed Franklin in the hospital and suffering from blackouts. Scared, Franklin began to pray.
“I heard God say, ‘You either have to be hot or cold. You have to be with me or the devil. You can’t be lukewarm.’”
Franklin realized she had not been trusting God to take care of her family or following the path God revealed to her. That needed to change, she said – and got to work.
Finding her path
In God Changed My Story, Franklin talks about her life as a child, as a single mother, a married woman and a mother. Franklin said many people feel like there is no “out” from their struggles, but she believes God is using her as a living testimony to say that isn’t true.
“Within the last year, I experienced God like no other,” said Franklin.
The book Franklin sat down to write became two…then three.
“I never had plans of writing the second book, and now there’s a third book,” said Franklin with a laugh.
“We can only go forward”
Franklin’s second book, God Changed My Story: After Healing, A New Beginning, talks about new beginnings after healing from past trauma.
“At the age of five, I was molested by a close family member,” Franklin revealed. “I held that secret for almost 30 years.”
Her parents divorced, her father disappearing from Franklin’s life shortly after. Believing her father chose to leave instead of protecting her, anger kept Franklin from seeking a relationship with him.
As an adult in search of healing from her past, Franklin finally communicated with her father. It was then Franklin learned her father was dying – and he wanted to make amends.
That conversation opened the door to a close relationship with her father before he passed two years later.
“When we’re stuck in our past, we can’t move forward or understand what God is trying to do. All these things that hurt me…it makes me stronger knowing that I can help somebody else.”
Franklin says God gives us one life – and we must live it. “We can’t go backward in time, we can only go forward.”
Opening doors for women
Franklin’s third book, God Changed My Story: I’m Not Superwoman, I’m A Good Woman, will be published by the new year – and is a devotional book for women.
“I’m talking about women [and] bringing God into the equation,” said Franklin. “God has plans for you. God loves you; even if you don’t feel love, God loves you.”
Franklin went on to say that outlandish expectations and harsh judgment are a daily reality for women.
“I want women to know they’re not superwomen…we’re human,” said Franklin. “And we have to realize that every woman comes from a different area in their lives.
“We’re so quick to judge when we don’t really know what a person’s been through. [Other people] don’t truly know you. God truly knows you.”
Natural beauty…and a podcast
Franklin also owns TJW Natural Beauty, a source of natural beauty products for women and men.
Recently, the author and entrepreneur felt called to begin the God Changed My Story podcast, featuring Franklin and three other women who talk about their life journeys.
Tanisha Franklin (second from left) began the GCMS podcast because “there is always more behind the story” (Courtesy, Tanisha Franklin)
“We can go through the same thing, but we all go through it differently, we all react to things differently,” said Franklin. “There’s always more behind the story.”
Franklin is living her dream of having a career that allows her to make her own schedule and have time for her family.
“I didn’t know that it was going to keep me this busy, but it has been wonderful,” said Franklin. “It’s a good busy, especially when you know that you’re doing God’s will.”
Franklin no longer struggles with trusting God’s plan for her life.
“I trust God like no other. I trust what God has told me, he will do. But it’s going to be in his timing. I’m not going to say it’s always easy because it’s not, [but] eventually there’s going to be light at the end.”
“If God did it for me, he’ll do it for you.”
(Courtesy, Tanisha Franklin)
“I want to give back,” said Franklin. “I want to make a difference in my generation.”
Franklin’s desire to help others stems from her belief that God uses our stories to care for each other. She often reminds herself and others to walk by faith, not by sight.
“It’s not what it looks like right now, it’s what it will look like if we trust and walk in faith with God. You just have to be open and allow God to use you. Do that, because it makes you so much happier.
Davenport University is focused on student mental health. When approached by Corewell Health to participate in its Blue Envelope suicide prevention program, the university was immediately on board.
The collegiate version of Blue Envelope launched at Davenport this September, the first college to adopt the program.
Preventing suicide by intervention
The Blue Envelope program was first developed to serve hospitals and doctor’s offices and was then modified five and a half years ago for K-12 schools across Michigan to combat the increase in students with suicidal thoughts. The Blue Envelope program is designed to empower staff to intervene with confidence, knowledge and competence and is having a positive impact.
As of June 2024, the program touched more than 95,000 K-12 students and trained more than 15,000 staff in 230 Michigan schools. Last year, participating schools reported 1,400 incidents of what are called “preventative opportunities.”
Due to the program’s success in K-12 schools, Corewell Health decided to expand into Michigan colleges and universities.
A culture of care
Blue Envelope suicide prevention program training for Davenport staff is ongoing (Courtesy, Davenport U)
Broad-based training of Davenport staff and faculty began in early September and is ongoing.
Joe Bishop, Davenport’s executive director of Campus Life, said this is a wonderful opportunity for the university. “Davenport is proud to be the first university partner for the collegiate Blue Envelope program and to continue our efforts to innovate and provide an outstanding culture of care for our students.”
“So far, employees from Public Safety, Campus Life, Career Services, College of Health faculty members, coaches, advisors, resident assistants, our leadership Cabinet and more have been trained,” said Bishop. “Our goal is to get as many faculty and staff trained as possible over the course of the school year.”
Clear instruction for response
The Blue Envelope program utilizes nationally recognized and evidence-based tools that provide clear instructions for university staff so they know how to respond when a student expresses thoughts of suicide.
Jody Sprague, Corewell Health’s Program Manager for Corewell Health’s school-based suicide prevention, said this program equips faculty and staff to quickly and discretely alert others of a priority situation so that the student can receive immediate interventions and swift access to supportive resources.
“This program has been so successful because it is preventative and not reactive,” said Sprague. “Instead of sending people directly to the emergency room, we can recognize the signs and provide wrap-around support before it gets to the point that it becomes an emergency.”
No issue is too big or too small
This philosophy fits in perfectly with what Darrin Oliver, lead counselor at Davenport’s Wellness Center, and his team are striving to achieve. The center is made possible by the Keith and Kathy Klingenberg Family Mental Health Fund and illustrates the university’s commitment to mental health.
Studies show that college students are more anxious than ever before (Courtesy, Davenport U)
“At Davenport, we see many students with high levels of anxiety and students experiencing sadness,” said Oliver. “Research has shown that college students are more anxious than ever before, and anxiety continues to steadily rise.
“In addition, 10-30% of college students report depressive tendencies. Students seek counseling for a number of reasons, and I want to emphasize that no issue is too big or too small.”
According to Oliver, some common trigger events that can lead to depression, anxiety and thoughts of suicide include family and relationship issues, untreated or ongoing mental health conditions, academic or athletic challenges, bullying, recent loss or death, extracurricular challenges, financial stress and feeling lonely.
Oliver wants students to know that if they need someone to talk to, that’s what the counselors at the Wellness Center are for.
“We’re here to listen and provide students with the tools and resources needed to help them work through any issue. It’s important to work through these issues before they become too much to handle.”
Opportunity, resources and understanding
Oliver has been through the Blue Envelope training and says it is a wonderful addition to the university’s efforts to support student mental health.
The Blue Envelope suicide prevention program provides training and resources (Courtesy, Davenport U)
“This program gives the wider Davenport community the opportunity to have conversations about suicide and to arm them with resources to help them understand the risk factors and traits associated with suicidal ideation and behavior,” said Oliver.
“What I’m hearing from those who have been through the Blue Envelope training is that they feel more prepared if they encounter a student experiencing suicidal ideation. Suicide is the second leading cause of death among 17-24-year-olds, so having these conversations and programs at Davenport is crucial.”
Sprague agrees. “This incredible community partnership would not be possible without a grant from the Michigan Health Endowment Fund.”
Sprague said Davenport will be able to start training its own staff in approximately one year, at which point the Blue Envelope program will be sustainable.
“This program is really going to benefit our student body, and we hope to be able to continue the training for a long time,” said Bishop. “I’d especially like to thank Keri Dutkiewicz, Davenport’s director of faculty learning and training, for co-leading the program. Without Dutkiewicz, Davenport would not have been able to take on the project.”
Engagement, comfort and hope
The Blue Envelope program helps faculty and staff how to respond when someone is experiencing a mental health challenge (Courtesy, Davenport U)
Dutkiewicz feels that the Blue Envelope program is a natural extension of the other ways Davenport invests in the personal and professional growth of faculty and staff, like offering training to build self-awareness and understanding each other’s differences.
“We don’t just automatically know how to respond when someone expresses that they are experiencing a mental health challenge or crisis,” said Dutkiewicz. “The Blue Envelope program equips faculty and staff with the evidence based skills needed to effectively respond in these situations so we can help keep each other safe.
“We don’t hesitate to help someone if they are having a cardiac event, so why would we hesitate to get someone professional help if they are experiencing a mental health crisis?”
Dutkiewicz said she hopes the program inspires the Davenport community to give an honest answer when someone asks how they are doing and to feel comfortable enough to ask for and offer help when needed. “I also hope this program helps us engage with our families, friends and our communities to bring hope and professional help to those who need it,” she said.
Additional support and resources
In addition to the Blue Envelope program and the services offered at its Wellness Center, Davenport is taking the following steps to help decrease the prevalence of depression and mental health issues on its campus:
Get Connected student group: One of the newest initiatives at Davenport is the “Get Connected” student group organized by Davenport’s Wellness Center. This group is designed to help students who are feeling lonely or struggling to make friends and connections. For more information, email counseling@davenport.edu.
National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Walk: To help bring awareness to mental health issues, Davenport participates in the annual National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) Walk every September. The community walk is held on Davenport’s W.A. Lettinga Grand Rapids Campus and brings attention to the issue of mental health.
“I understand”: Member of the Davenport Alumni Board Vonnie Woodrick created “I understand,” a nonprofit that provides compassionate comfort and understanding for those affected by suicide or mental/brain health illness and pain. Click here for more information.
If you or someone you know needs immediate help, call or text the suicide prevention hotline at 988 (Courtesy, pxhere.com)
Davenport students can make an appointment at the Wellness Center by calling 616-871-6166 or by visiting https://www.davenport.edu/campus-life/wellness-center. The Wellness Center’s counselors can also be reached on the “urgent” line at 616-340-5243.
*If you or someone you know needs immediate help, call or text the suicide prevention hotline at 988.
Gadberry works to ensure veterans are recognized for their service (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
Wyoming resident Ryan Gadberry served four years (2013-2017) in the U.S. Marines. While no longer on active-duty, the local veteran continues serving by bringing comfort and recognition to hospice veterans during their end-of-life journey.
Already serving as Property Manager for Hospice of Michigan, Gadberry stepped in to help when he heard Hospice of Michigan needed veteran volunteers.
For the past eight months, Gadberry has used his military experiences to make a meaningful impact.
“I am more than happy to give back,” said Gadberry. “It’s very heartwarming; it makes you feel like you’re doing something really important.”
Camaraderie and compassion
Hospice of Michigan strives to deliver the holistic, loving care veterans deserve. Veteran volunteers make a difference in the lives of others by sitting and visiting with fellow veteran patients.
Gadberry said there is a specific connection between veterans due to shared military training and history.
Wyoming veterans gather at an annual local breakfast (Courtesy, City of Wyoming)
“You can meet a total stranger and, once you find out they are a fellow service person, there is an immediate connection,” said Gadberry. “You’re no longer a stranger.”
That connection has been frequently proven, but one instance made a lasting impact on Hospice of Michigan Volunteer Program Manager, Lauren Becker-Barkman.
A lifelong Marine within hours of the end of his life journey was restless, repeatedly reaching and calling out.
“There was no peace in this man’s world at this time,” said Becker-Barkman. “He’s uncomfortable, he’s restless.”
Veterans can make a difference in each other’s lives (Courtesy photo)
The hospice team asked a veteran volunteer to sit with the veteran in hopes of making a difference in his end-of-life journey.
“By the time [the volunteer] left,” said Becker-Barkman, “he was comfortable, he was at peace. He wasn’t calling out, he wasn’t reaching out.”
The veteran passed within a few hours – and what was said during that time together remains unknown.
“We don’t know what was said or what passed between these two veterans, but whatever it was allowed this man to find peace and to be able to go on peacefully,” said Becker-Barkman. “That’s the kind of connection you can’t make up. The impact is immeasurable.”
Gadberry personally cultivates that special connection with hospice veterans through empathy and understanding.
A desire to serve
Gadberry is thankful for his time in the Marines (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
A first-generation serviceman in his family, Gadberry always knew he wanted to be a Marine.
“Even when I was a kid, that was the plan. Finish high school, join the Marines. That’s what I did.”
Gadberry served as an intelligence analyst, working with several overseas ops – and has no regrets.
“I love that I did it; it definitely turned me into the man I am today.”
And that man gets a visible bounce in his step when meeting fellow veterans.
An unexpected impact
“He gets a little pep in his step knowing that he’s going to meet a veteran,” said Becker-Barkman, adding that Gadberry is also asked to read poems or talk about the impact of veteran connections often. “He’s incredibly humble about being a veteran himself…so to know that he’s also getting some recognition and that he’s continuing to make an impact, it’s really cool.”
A local woman raises her voice in song at a vet pinning ceremony (Courtesy, Hospice of Michigan)
Gadberry said that volunteering has impacted him in ways he didn’t expect – especially the pinning ceremonies.
“What surprised me was the impact it has on the families,” said Gadberry. “It’s overwhelming to see. It’s important to make that veteran feel remembered and seen, but they’re on their end-of-life journey, they’re going to be gone soon. But that ceremony, and those memories, are going to be passed on and kept with the family members for many years to come.”
Though many veterans are recognized for their service through their communities, American Legion or VFW, there are just as many who never see recognition of any kind. Gadberry said giving that recognition to veterans during the last steps of their end-of-life journey is memorable for all involved.
“Every ceremony, every event is completely different,” said Gadberry. “Every time I do it, I take away something different and I learn a little bit more.”
Becker-Barkman said her time with Hospice of Michigan has also been life-changing.
“I’ve learned so much about end-of-life care and what that entails for us as human beings,” said Becker-Barkman. “I get to be surrounded by so many brilliant, loving, giving people that it’s changed my entire outlook on everything.
“It’s magical to be surrounded by people who are so willing to show up for people they don’t know at what can be the hardest time in their life; it’s rejuvenating.”
The value of serving in new ways
Hospice of Michigan is continually in need of compassionate veteran volunteers to provide that much needed support and camaraderie to hospice veterans. Regardless of how they served, the bond between veterans opens a door of trust and communication through mutual understanding.
“Veterans share a unique bond,” said Kathy Lietaert, Hospice of Michigan Statewide Volunteer Program Manager, in supplied material. “Through our veterans hospice program, every act of service by volunteer veterans brings comfort, connection and compassion to hospice veterans who need it most at the end of life.”
Volunteers can make a life-changing impact with a minimal time commitment (Courtesy photo)
Becker-Barkman said they are always looking for more volunteer support, in Grand Rapids and throughout the state – and their volunteering schedule is flexible.
“You could [visit] one patient a month, visit once a week, or whatever fits your schedule,” said Becker-Barkman. “We don’t have any rigid guidelines. We want volunteers to be able to fit this into their lives in a way that’s meaningful and not overwhelming for them.”
Volunteer orientations are hosted on an as-needed basis so prospective volunteers can learn in their own time. Training or previous volunteer experience is not needed. All veterans willing to donate their time and companionship to hospice care patients are welcome.
Gadberry believes that veterans will step in to help once they are aware of the need.
“I was more than happy to help out,” said Gadberry. “I think that will be the case for other veterans out there. If they hear that another veteran needs some form of help, they will always step up.”
Learn more!
Prospective volunteers can contact Lauren Becker-Barkman at 616-250-9110 or lbecker-barkman@hom.org.
Learn more about Hospice of Michigan and submit an online volunteer application here.
Lee Middle School has rekindled their partnership with Affinity Mentoring in a recent ribbon cutting ceremony at their newly renovated mentoring space (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
South Kent Chamber of Commerce presents Affinity Mentoring with a certificate at the ribbon cutting ceremony (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
“I see you, I hear you. You are valued, and I know things you have to say right now are things that need to be heard by all of us.”
This is the value Affinity Mentoring provides youth in our local schools, says Lauren Enos, Affinity Mentoring Program and DEI Director.
Lee Middle School in Wyoming has rekindled their partnership with nonprofit Affinity Mentoring after a two-year hold due to necessary school roof renovations.
Focusing on schools facing disadvantages, Affinity supports students in K-8th grade by matching them with a caring adult role model and striving to create a safe space for local youth to utilize their voice.
Small commitment = big impact
Affinity mentors journey alongside students for one hour each week.
“All of our mentors have said it’s the smallest commitment they’ve ever made for the biggest impact on their life,” says Enos. “We have a 90% retention rate. Mentors come back year after year to work with the same student because they become friends. It’s a true relationship.”
Affinity Mentoring Executive Director Rocio Moreno (left) talks about their partnership with the Godfrey-Lee School District (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
Holly Kroeze, mentor and Mars Hill Bible Church staff member, is entering her seventh year mentoring Lee Middle School student, Eternity. During that time, Eternity was adopted by her foster mother – and Kroeze has built a relationship with Eternity’s entire family.
“I have found that developing a relationship with [her] mom has been helpful because she gives me insight into things that are going on in Eternity’s life,” says Kroeze.
Kroeze went on to say that she has enjoyed partnering with other adults in Eternity’s life to give more extensive care and support.
“It’s fun to see kids like Eternity get care from multiple adults,” says Kroeze, adding that kids need support from five adults in order to thrive. “I’m grateful I get to be one of those people for her because she has grown a lot. It’s been so fun to watch her journey.”
Lee MS Principal Adrianne Rose speaks at the Affinity Mentoring ribbon cutting ceremony (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
“We’re really excited to be back in Lee Middle School,” says Enos. “We’re now able to follow the kiddos from early childhood into middle school.”
Lee MS Principal Adrianne Rose echoes Enos’ enthusiasm.
“We wanted to rekindle that partnership because this is an incredibly important piece to the whole child in our academics,” says Rose. “Our 6th graders, they’re excited to see their mentors. They ask about them, they want them to be here, and that to me tells me the mentors are doing what they’re here to do.”
A safe and inclusive space
While Affinity’s mentoring program has seen positive results such as increased school attendance and class engagement from students and a decrease in truancy, bullying and behavioral concerns – there are also personal benefits.
“We really hone in on our mentor centers to be a safe, inclusive space for our mentees to be able to share their difficulties,” says Rocio Moreno, Executive Director at Affinity Mentoring. “Some of it might be home-related or life-related, and we can tailor our program to that.
“Behavioral concerns tend to decrease because they’re able to engage in those hard topic conversations with their mentor as to why they might have made a particular choice throughout that time.”
Staff and mentors are excited for this opportunity to support Lee Middle School youth (Courtesy, Deborah Reed WKTV)
An overall improvement in self-esteem comes from knowing that one-on-one support is available.
“[Students] feel more confident,” says Enos. “They’re willing to take risks and make mistakes because there’s someone there to say, ‘I was in that same place, and I made those mistakes too,’ normalizing all the everyday things they go through.”
That support can often go both ways.
Since beginning her journey as a mentor, Kroeze and her husband became foster parents.
“Eternity was the first person to give me the best advice about what to do and what things she liked,” says Kroeze.
“Our relationship has been mutually beneficial because I’ve learned a lot from her. Learned how to be a good parent, and learned how to relate to foster kids. For Eternity, she’s [gained] some stability and accountability in her life.”
100+ students are waiting…
Affinity Mentoring is always in need of new community volunteers who are willing to donate an hour of their time once a week.
“One hour a week eating your lunch, hanging out and making slime will go by so fast,” said Moreno with a smile. “But the need for volunteers is high as we currently have over 100 students on our waitlist that desire a mentor.”
Kroeze recommends joining the mentoring program with a spouse or partner.
“My husband and I do it together, and we’ve done it together since Day One,” says Kroeze. “It’s fun to put faces to names when you talk about what your day was like with your mentee.
“Mentoring together makes things a little bit crazier – but a lot of fun.”
Eventually, Moreno would love to expand Affinity’s mentoring program to Lee High School as well. “Because this is a middle school-high school, it would be an easy transition to continue for the students we currently work with.”
For more information about Affinity Mentoring services, click here.
LOVED youth program founder Steve Carigon and VP of Advancement Brooke Jevicks talk with Managing Editor Deborah Reed on WKTV Journal Soundbites about how they WOW kids with love at Wedgwood Christian Services.
“The majority of the kids that come into our care have been chronically neglected and abused,” says Brooke Jevicks, VP of Advancement at WCS, adding that many youth go through 7-12 failed placements before being referred to WCS for help.
(Courtesy, WCS)
When youth are critically neglected and abused, it reinforces doubt and the question: Am I worthy of being loved?
“It’s critically important for a human to know that they are valued and worthy, and that they are loved,” says Jevicks. “You want to work on yourself differently when you know and believe that. You work harder for yourself, you fight for yourself, you advocate for yourself.”
Love – with intention
Youth pastor Steve Carigon founded LOVED when the previous WCS youth ministry faltered under pandemic gathering restrictions.
Based on bible verse John 3:16, LOVED was born shortly after – with intention.
“It’s something that the kids need,” says Carigon. “These kids have not been loved properly, and we’re going to do everything we can to show them that they are loved by God, and by us, any way we can.”
LOVED is held at 4 p.m. every other Thursday and is open to all WCS home residents. However, attendance is not mandatory.
Even the bubbles are intentional
LOVED begins at the front door with a bubble machine and a red carpet.
“We want them to feel like stars and that they are awesome,” says Carigon.
Wedgwood supporters play a game similar to a game LOVED youth play while being cheered on (Courtesy, WCS)
Jevicks agrees. “Staff are cheering for every kid. They are seriously in the business of making sure those kids know, without a shadow of a doubt, that they are worthy of being loved.”
Upon entering the building, youth choose a flavored sucker and receive a raffle ticket. They are then ushered into the music-filled chapel where kids can sit or play games before the program begins.
A countdown on the screen gets things rolling. After the welcome and a reminder that they are loved, an interactive on-screen game begins that typically involves a lot of…yelling and candy-throwing.
For the next game (anything from flipping bottles to using sticky gel hands to retrieve items off a table), youth approach the stage when their name is drawn, are introduced, and then cheered on by everyone in the room.
Raffle tickets, crab legs and a…unicorn?
Next onstage is the…raffle unicorn.
“We have a unicorn costume, and kids always want to be the unicorn,” says Carigon with a laugh.
Wedgwood guests cheer when names are called as is done for youth who attend LOVED (Courtesy, WCS)
Raffle numbers are read, and winners choose what they want for lunch the next day.
“They love it,” says Carigon. “The kids are starting to understand that I literally will get them anything they want for lunch. Last week I went to Red Lobster and got crab legs.”
A 10-minute talk on God’s love wraps up the program.
“They’re getting it.”
“I see a bunch of kids receiving and expressing love in normal conversations,” says Carigon, noting that a large portion of that happens outside of actual LOVED events.
One of Carigon’s favorite things is hearing youth shout, “You’re loved!” across campus.
“It means they’re getting it,” says Carigon.
(Courtesy, WCS)
Carigon also enjoys seeing WCS youth wear LOVED wristbands, shirts and hats around campus.
“They wear the shirts, and it’s like a proclamation saying, ‘I’m loved. I’m wearing the shirt, I’m loved.’”
That declaration is about more than shirts – it is about relationships.
“It’s me, the leaders, the other chaplains building relationships with kids,” says Carigon. “We’re well-known around campus because we work at doing rounds and seeing kids in between classes, at lunch and after school. We try to intersect their lives as much as possible.”
Loved people…love people
“The same question all humans ask is, am I loved?” says Carigon. “I’m also a human, so I feel that too. Our own brain is really good at telling us that we’re not good enough.
(Courtesy photo)
“Even though you may not think you’re enough, you are exactly enough.”
Carigon firmly believes that consistently hearing we are loved and valued changes the way we interact with ourselves and with other people.
“When you feel love yourself, you start loving other people,” says Carigon. “[And] we’re supposed to love other people. My hope is when these kids feel loved, it changes their outcome.”
Jevicks says that is the heart of LOVED. “They’ve put so much thought and intention into it, [and] there is a meaningful message for youth so they know that they are loved by their Heavenly Father. Exactly who they are right now, today, He loves them deeply.”
That extravagant love is why Carigon loves his job.
“When you love people – especially kids that haven’t been loved well – how can you have a bad day?”
Refusing to abandon our youth
“What sets WCS aside is that deep love for these kids – and not abandoning them,” says Jevicks. “LOVED is not a mandatory program to receive good care and to be loved. We’re going to love you anyway. That’s the gift of Wedgwood.”
A LOVED event guest writes a blessing for a youth in WCS residential care (Courtesy, WCS)
WCS staff continue demonstrating support and love even when youth push them away.
“We anticipate that, we understand it, we’re not surprised by it,” says Jevicks. “It’s a trauma response; it’s protection. It’s all they know.”
When youth push, WCS staff plant their feet, respecting boundaries while continually acknowledging and caring for them. Over time, youth often take steps to close that gap.
“Those are powerful moments,” says Jevicks. “It illustrates the power of love. True, sincere, Christ-like love. Go ahead and push me away, because I understand why you’re pushing me away. You do what you need to do, and I’m going to keep being right here for you.
“That’s what Wedgwood does for these kids, and they get even more of that at LOVED.”
For more information on LOVED and other WCS programs, click here.
The Gerald R. Ford International Airport Authority is thrilled to announce the grand opening of its Sensory Room, located at the beginning of Concourse A. This new area is designed to offer support to travelers with sensory sensitivities.
The Sensory Room is intended to provide a therapeutic setting that helps individuals feel comfortable in their surroundings. The space is designed to minimize overstimulation and provide a calm and inclusive environment for individuals of all ages with cognitive and/or development disabilities.
(Courtesy, Ford International Airport)
“We are pleased to continue our commitment to enhancing the airport experience for all travelers,” said Tory Richardson, president and CEO of the Ford International Airport Authority. “This room includes sensory aids that stimulate reactions, encourage communication, and reduce agitation and anxiety sometimes caused by air travel.”
Developed in partnership with Disability Advocates of Kent County, the Sensory Room is intended to provide a calm and controlled setting that offers a sense of familiarity for travelers. The space is divided into four different zones, including:
Transition Zone: Provides a comfortable adjustment from one sensory experience to another.
Active Zone: Engages multiple senses through various activities.
Respite Zone: Offers sensory separation and recalibration in a public setting.
Airplane Simulation Zone: Prepares individuals for new sensory situations to decrease anxiety.
Sensory Room. (Courtesy, Ford International Airport)
“We would like to thank Delta Air Lines and Aero BridgeWorks Inc. for their support of this project and for their donation to the Airplane Simulation Zone, which will help travelers practice the process of boarding a plane, walking on a jet bridge and finding their seat,” Richardson said.
Additional features in the Sensory Room include an activity wall, campfire sitting area, soft surface play area and more.
The Sensory Room is now open to travelers and can be accessed through a call button next to the entrance door.
